well maybe now is a good time to re-introduce her to more foreplay and maybe u need to be high normal on the T scale
there r some natural products; Yohimbe and others u might try and MAYBE she needs something; lot of women say that viagra helps them also
just a thought
u can also use rings to keep the erection even after u cum
Hey dude, you need to get rid of all the bad health habits and start living a healthy lifestyle. I don't say this lightly, your overall health is shown on the hardness of your penis.
Start by cutting the fat, quitting smoking, eating healthy foods and exercising more regularly. If you are on any kind of medicine, then check to see if it is bad for erectile strength and request a change.
Lastly, you can try taking herbal supplements to improve blood flow and strengthen your erections.
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