40 yo, married, healthy, can't get it up

when u raise your t level to normal range that will help and the viagra doesn't hurt either, both is better sometimes
u can use this time to practice up on your oral and other foreplay

So I'm lifting heavy and making increases in muscle and strength, so that makes me think that my T-level isn't too low.

As for the oral and foreplay, surprisingly, my wife really isn't into either. She used to be. That doesn't help matters.

well maybe now is a good time to re-introduce her to more foreplay and maybe u need to be high normal on the T scale
there r some natural products; Yohimbe and others u might try and MAYBE she needs something; lot of women say that viagra helps them also
just a thought
u can also use rings to keep the erection even after u cum

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Hey dude, you need to get rid of all the bad health habits and start living a healthy lifestyle. I don't say this lightly, your overall health is shown on the hardness of your penis.

Start by cutting the fat, quitting smoking, eating healthy foods and exercising more regularly. If you are on any kind of medicine, then check to see if it is bad for erectile strength and request a change.

Lastly, you can try taking herbal supplements to improve blood flow and strengthen your erections.

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Try natural PE products. I use Firminite and it works really good.

They also give you a full refund if it doesn't.

Hope this helps you! Good luck!