So, now that I have your attention, I would like to explain my situation so you can gain a better understanding of what I'm going at.
I am 20. I would say I'm attractive, average build, average height, no serious personality flaws. People think I'm a cool chica for the most part. Problem for me is, I've never done anything intimate with anyone, nor have I dated (other than an extremely awkward blind date, which I don't think necessarily counts...it was just weird and awkward, and wanted to get out of there as fast as possible). I'm not saving anything for marriage, but I also don't want to just sleep with the next guy who walks down the street, basically just saving it for someone I am able to trust, but I want that to be sooner than later.
The other problem is that I don't necessarily know anyone interested that I am able to trust. Are there guys interested? Yes, but they're addicted to drugs...I'm sorry, but I have standards, and if you don't like it, I don't care. Are there guys I'm able to trust? Yes, but they're generally not interested. It seems that a lot of guys just aren't interested, and I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. I can be flirtatious, I'm not that shy, but I frequently I'm just quiet, I'm not really trying, and just trying to go with the flow and let things happen, but after 6 or so months of doing this, still nothing.
I would like to have the experience of a relationship, but...I just suck at starting one, or finding someone who is also interested in me...maybe I'm just ugly, or what?
I just want someone else's perspective on all of this. I guess I just don't understand what I could possibly be doing wrong. Any advice?
Dont worry babe your time will come there somone out there for everyone just look out for him and he soon be there dont stresss yourself soon your perfect person will be there for you and your be happy just wait and see !!! x
I am just tired of "special one", "someone out there" stuff. Somebody has to criminalize making romantic movies. What happened to good old system of marry next door and stick with him/her for the entire life. Now everybody is looking for the best and special. Nobody wants normal person with flaws. Practically speaking do what makes you happy. Frankly speaking, no guy will turn down a date or any kind of sexual offer from a girl, unless he has too high standards. So you should have no problem alluring guys. It is as easy as it sounds. The hardest part is to ask.