Thanks for eveyones input. I use monistat or some form of otc medicine just about every month. I'm probably immune to the medicines by now...which is why I've turned to natural forms of treatment. I have yet to ask him to take the acidopholis with me along with diet change for him as well, so I guess that'll be my next step.
As for sex, i have him w/d because I was concerned over being sensitive to his sperm. I've had a skin rash in the past from it when we started dating....unfortunatley I react badly to condoms as well. I'll try to bathe after sex and see if that helps, I usually wash up but not a full shower. I've been with him for almost 9 years and I'm seriously sick of this. Thanks again.