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Q: 14 years old and maybe pregnant !
asked by: tiger07 on August 26th, 2009
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im 14 years old and might be pregnant... the problem is im gettint tht cancer jab thing and im to scared to tell them tht i might be, but it would be easyer if they gave u a tick box thing so i dont have to really say, i was wondering if they do tht ? coz im a really shy lassie like and just could say, ...i know tht the jab would probably kill the maybe baby, coz all the things in it, im scared tht i might just not say, and tht is just so bad i know ! so is there tick box sheets things ?
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serenitylove
replied on August 26th, 2009
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i don't know if they're is a box to check off if you are. but if you tell you're doctor they will give you a test before you do the shot. if you can't when your moms with you or whatever ask to use the bathroom before you go into your visit and tell a nurse or secretary who's walking around and they can get the doctor alone with you.

i would not be afraid to tell the doctor that you think you're pregnant, that's what they're there for. and it's definitely necessary
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tiger07
replied on August 27th, 2009
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im getting the jab at school & dats bad coz im all palie with her and it would be wierd to say ...
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tiger07
replied on August 27th, 2009
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even if its the hospital we get it at thts bad to coz the nurses are mostly the mums of half the lassies in ma year, and they would defo tell them ...everthing gets out tht way, thts how another lassie fi ma skool got found out about !
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serenitylove
replied on August 27th, 2009
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either way you should tell your mother in my opinion. if you're 14, she should definitely know if your sexually active in the first place. i think you should talk to your mom about it first and tell her that you don't know if you are or not, but either way you need her support through all of this and would appreciate if she was there with you. she's your mom and i bet she wouldn't leave you to deal with this yourself at such a young age. it's a great feeling to know your mom is with you and will help you even though your not pregnant, and if you tell her it might relieve some of the stress of taking the test in the first place.
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tiger07
replied on August 28th, 2009
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It was only once, and i know she would make me do it on my own and all she probably wouldnt be mad, my big brothers and sisters have dont well worse things she isnt like most mums, but still i feel weird telling even her, the person i think i might tell is my big sister even tho she is a bum and all she is 21 or my other sister she is 20 but i dont really trust her no to tell ma mum, which is wierd too, coz i trust her with most things ...but my oldest sister is the one i might tell, the funny thing is like i told ma pal i felt like i was pregnant in a jokey kind of way, coz i had a stich in my side and i herd tht can happen, .. very sare bak, and heed. but still not sure, if i am a will be 15 weeks the day ! coz tht wis the last time a seen ...him.
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serenitylove
replied on August 28th, 2009
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well you can't just try avoiding the topic with your mother. cause you can take a test all by yourself, but if it's positive you need to tell her. the sooner the better cause if your 15 weeks you need prenatal care, asap. i didn't tell my mom cause i was afraid and she was upset that she didn't think i could confide in her.. you need to look at it from their perspective, you are her child and she wants the best for you. and if you can't do that yourself because you're so young, more than likely she will help you every step of the way. i say go to your mom before you go to anyone else. shes your mother and she loves you and cares about you and wants the best.
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tiger07
replied on August 29th, 2009
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yes i know but i want to find out if i am or not before i tell her, and im to scared to take the test my self so want one of my sisters to be there so im not alone.
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