Due to a prolonged illness (symptoms of which are chronic fatigue and weakness, which therefor make for a fairly sedentary existence) I have gained a fair amount of weight over the past 2 years or so. I'm not what I'd consider fat, but as I was formerly always very thin, I feel huge Also I don't have any idea what others would consider me, especially in regards to men. This has caused me serious stress and depression especially recently, as I have felt too poorly to work out. I eat very little and am very conscientious about what I eat, and up until the past few weeks I've worked out for half an hour 2 or 3 times a week, so it's not as if I'm not unhealthy/not trying. But the weight isn't changing significantly (I have firmed up some, and have lost a few inches) I wear clothes that are flattering to my figure, and am "well put together" so to speak ... But I still feel awful, huge, and despairing that nobody will want me, think I'm pretty enough, desirable, ect...
My measurements are 39-31-41 and I'm between 5'6 and 5'7... Granted all the attention "Plus" size models are getting in the media lately is somewhat encouraging, but do men REALLY not mind, or even find "curvy" or "full-figured" or whatever attractive? Also, what would I now be considered at this size?
ie; "chubby","fat","curvy", "average" ???
I have no idea what your size would be considered but I do know this. You have a vagina and there are thousands of men who will find you attractive. The 39 inch bust size alone makes you extra desirable to men. Sure there will be alot of rude and obnoxious guys that only like skinny women, but go on google and type chubby or fat and look for sexual websites and there will be thousands of women portrayed. There is always some guy out there that wants to be with women who don't fit the normal size range. Your only problem is going to be sorting through them and finding the ones who care about you on the inside which is a problem all sized women have. It doesn't sound like you have much of a weight problem so I don't know what your worried about. Look up feeders, those are women so fat they can't get out of bed and they have a large following of men as well. We live in a country where granny porn can be profitable. Do you really believe that you couldn't compete with that. Men think with their penis, but women want something more. Try being an average looking guy with no social skills and you will see what alone is all about.