Hi!!!! I have also the same kind of problem ...i'm 22 and i've been married for nearly 2 years.. it's really hard to get married when you are too young !!! …. It is normal to feel insecure just don’t try to disturb too much your husband for your insecurities , believe me I did annoyed my husband a lot for that …probably he is too busy and he doesn’t notice that he needs give you time and attention , you should try talk to him about that , but don’t be too worry about his fidelity , I’m sure that if he takes a bit more time with you and express himself better about how does he feel about you , would make you more confident about your relationship…. Another advice … you know , my husband is handsome and really really confident about himself and I learnt that it is better not to show my weak side to him…now instead of being jealous and upset with him I try to worry more about myself and do things that make me more confident and boost my self esteem , I‘m working really hard in that and I think that makes me look even more attractive J …hope that everything goes well for you all the best
Cynthia

hey kayla,
what is it specifically that HE is doing that concerns you? have you seen him look at other women? when you say he never has time for you, but maybe all you need to do is to talk to him about what he's doing. maybe he's not conscious of not paying you attention like you'd like.

my question for you is what are you seeing that would indicate that he is messing around on you?

jasmine

you have to tell your husband how you feel, what you like, what makes you happy...etc.

on a good day tell him you would love for him to get you flowers out of the blue.
you want him to hold your hand while walking down the street.

some guys dont know anything about romance. and you are a very young couple.

i dont mind if my b/f looks at other women (dr.phil's wife says same thing) as long as he does it in a respectful way. some guys eyes pop open, and mouth opens.

since you are already married, try your best to make it work. you have to talk to him, communication is one thing that breaks up a marriage, let this be what keeps you together.

Honey you have been married such a short time..You guys are just getting to know one another..Why not do a romantic dinner, nice bottle of chilled wine..Why not dress speical after a luxurious bath and smell really nice..Wear something sexy-make sure you sparkle..Do yhou know their is a nice smelling sparkle powder with a soft brush you can put on you or for him for that matter..Why not bring the sparkle into your lives..Youa re too young to be worrying..I have been married since 1970 some of youi weren't evedn born yet and I can assure you a sexy life with your man can be very rewarding..You have to give a little to get alot..wouldn't hurt to try..kd