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Q: Worried about pregnancy

asked by: timberline on May 10th, 2009

New User

Hello Everyone,

Recently my girlfriend were messing around, I fingered her (there was absolutely no ejaculate on my finger, as I remembered never to touch myself with the hand that I used). However, I did put my penis between her "lips" and the tip of my penis was probably close to her vaginal opening (please excuse my terms). Before I put it there, I checked to make sure there was no ejaculate on it whatsoever. I put it there for probably 15 seconds (if that), however when I checked after to make sure there was nothing on it, I noticed there was a very VERY small amount of a wet substance on my penis. If it was anything it was a very small amount of pre-ejaculate. Her period should start on the 14th, 15th, or 16th of this month. Should I be worried about my girlfriend being pregnant?

Thank you for any input!

Replies(7)

Mabel

replied on May 11th, 2009

Moderator

First of all, putting your penis between her legs is kind of risky. Do you know how many sperm can be in pre-ejaculate? Millions. It doesn't take very much, in fact, it only takes one.

More than likely, you will be safe. But don't engage in this kind of risky behavior or you'll wind up getting her pregnant.

Get birth control.

timberline

replied on May 11th, 2009

New User

Mabel,

Thank you for your reply. I don't ever plan to do it again. To make the whole situation worse is that I have GAD (Generalized Anxiety Disorder) which made/makes me worry about this way to much. I know now that there is a small possibility of her being pregnant, but I can't let it stress me out too much to the point where I get sick.

Thank you again for your reply, I really appreciate it.

Mabel

replied on May 11th, 2009

Moderator

I'll be honest with you, her chances are incredibly low. But still, this kind of behavior is risky. Sex and playing around is so much better when it isn't frightening for weeks afterward.

Do yourself a favor, go to planned parenthood where they will teach you responsible sex practices and they'll even throw in some FREE condoms. Your parents never have to know.

Good luck!

timberline

replied on May 11th, 2009

New User

Thank you again for your reply.

I'm trying to let this not bother me as much as it has been for the past few days. I know the chances are very slim (I posted a similar thread on a different forum, and I received replies saying that the chances are "very VERY slim, like 99.99% that she is not pregnant". Still, I worry. That .01% is still enough.

timberline

replied on May 14th, 2009

New User

Hello again everyone.

For the past few days I've been trying to keep my mind off of worrying about it. My girlfriend isn't worried at all about it and tells me I'm worrying way too much. Which I agree. Last month she had her period on the 15th or 16th. So I'm hoping it starts soon, that way it will help me to quit worrying about this. Should I be this worried about this?

Thanks

kyrafaith

replied on May 14th, 2009

Supporter

No. If your worried it might make her more nervous and that could cause her to be late. you need to relax so she can and then her period can come.

timberline

replied on May 14th, 2009

New User

Thank you for the quick reply kyrafaith!

I appreciate your response. I'm hoping that it comes tomorrow or Saturday. That is when it should come. But it has come a day early or a day late before. Time will tell.

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