she was out of line to say what she said..i think that was really rude for her to bring up her ex boyfriends size and purposely make you feel insecure about yourself, i'm sure she isn't absolutely perfect herself...ANYWAY...back to your question...size really doesn't matter all that much I dont think, my boyfriend is about that same size as you and i have no complaints...i think that was more of just an attack on you for some reason..you shouldn't feel insecure at all and if she doesn't like it, maybe you should cut her off for a bit! And those massive dildos are just for looks..honestly most women when asked like an average sized man..

Your size is above average! Anything over 6" is big. You should definately NOT be worried. And if a woman has had a larger man, your calm response should be "How did you like his large ego?" A larger man will come with his own set of problems. and don't be jealous of a larger sex toy in the drawer either. I have different fantasies and occasions for various sized toys. Textures become tricky though, the jell ones irritate my skin. Anyway....

hahaha..."how did you like his large ego"....i liked that, guys worry too much about size though honestly...just be confident, you're normal and if that isn't good enough for her then you will find a girl that will be more than satisfied with what you got!

thanks for the replies! it helped alot hearing from you all specially the ladies... i think i asked her how big her ex was so that was my fault... but yeah...thanks! it helps to know other people find it perfectly fine

one more question...since im 18 do you all think its still going to grow?

well you are a great size and if she dislikes it ahe would probley not even want sex but you dont need to feel anything sad or bothered at all by what she said she was being mean thats all there is to it and her ex was probley not really that big anyways she just said that to make you feel bad and yes they do make smaller dildos ive seen them before. thats just a load of crap. and i really dont know for sure if you will still grow or not but i think you will even though you dont really need to just dont listen when she says that crap size is not that important anyways

Yeah, to be honest your size sounds nice to me. No worries. Even so, what you do with it really does matter. Some guys with a large penis never bother to really learn how to do anything other than the old "in-out" because they think that big=perfect. That's not the case at all! Great sex can come from any size if the mood is right, there's been plenty of foreplay and both partners are comfortable with each other.

By the way, I've never inserted a dildo further than 4 or 5 inches because my G-spot is only about 2ish inches in. That's all I need. The rest beyond that is just a handle. lol

LOL!
You should totally get back at her!!
Go talk about how your ex girlfriend had breast size double D!

hey there. try not to let her comments bring you down. as you can tell we (most women) prefer the average size. Anything bigger than 6 is a waste. Only because most of us women cant even take it all and if we do its painful. Thats why men were created to be about 6 inches. So again try not to worry. I think you are a very good size.

And no I dont think you are done growing. From what I hear most men stop growing at 20-21. Which I feel is true. My hubby and I got together when he was 18. He is now almost 21 and it does feel he has gotten thicker not longer. He doesnt think so, but I can tell the difference

Aw! I hate that guys get so worked up over size! Think of it like this, the vagina is only about 4 inches deep!

I would rather have a guy 6 inches or less, personally. I can't stand giving oral to a really big guy because of the gag reflex, and I like rough sex, but I don't like the pain of him hitting my cervix a lot. So, in my eyes, a smaller guy is a much better partner! I can enjoy more, and so can he.

Don't ever let size bother you! If she doesn't like it, then that's her deal. Some girls do like bigger guys, but that isn't the norm! Just be comfortable with who you are! One of the biggest turn ons for girls is confidence!

sweetie its not the size its how you use it to make love. besides the clitoris is on the "OUTSIDE" of the vagina. you hit that spot right and shell orgasm till the end of time. personally you need to find a girl who loves you not you size . shes too preocupied with numbers not actions if a man treats me like a queen and respects me that is more important then size and you really dont feel that much up in there anyway. lol aim for the "man in the boat up front and center" and youll be the next girls god lol