Hi, im new here but ive been reading
topics aboutt his, yet though at times i
feel better about myself sometimes i still
dont feel good.
reason being is because my girlfriend says
size does matter, thats why there arent
4-5 inch dildos... only large 1s... and
that kinda brought me down...... im about
6-6.5 in length and about 2 inches wide
and all around 5 or a little above 5.
her last bf was 7.5 inches.... and that
brought me down..she said my size is okay
but i dont feel it is..can someone tell me
if mine is a good size or not?
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worrywart01
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Posted: 06-05-08 16:15pm
she was out of line to say what she
said..i think that was really rude for her
to bring up her ex boyfriends size and
purposely make you feel insecure about
yourself, i'm sure she isn't absolutely
perfect herself...ANYWAY...back to your
question...size really doesn't matter all
that much I dont think, my boyfriend is
about that same size as you and i have no
complaints...i think that was more of just
an attack on you for some reason..you
shouldn't feel insecure at all and if she
doesn't like it, maybe you should cut her
off for a bit! And those massive dildos
are just for looks..honestly most women
when asked like an average sized man..
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beachgenie
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size Posted: 06-05-08 21:25pm
Your size is above average! Anything over
6" is big. You should definately NOT be
worried. And if a woman has had a larger
man, your calm response should be "How did
you like his large ego?" A larger man
will come with his own set of problems.
and don't be jealous of a larger sex toy
in the drawer either. I have different
fantasies and occasions for various sized
toys. Textures become tricky though, the
jell ones irritate my skin. Anyway....
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worrywart01
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Posted: 06-05-08 21:31pm
hahaha..."how did you like his large
ego"....i liked that, guys worry too much
about size though honestly...just be
confident, you're normal and if that isn't
good enough for her then you will find a
girl that will be more than satisfied with
what you got!
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mohkilla
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Posted: 06-05-08 22:33pm
thanks for the replies! it helped alot
hearing from you all specially the
ladies... i think i asked her how big her
ex was so that was my fault... but
yeah...thanks! it helps to know other
people find it perfectly fine
one more question...since im 18 do you all
think its still going to grow?
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acnsoverberg8607
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Posted: 06-07-08 19:00pm
well you are a great size and if she
dislikes it ahe would probley not even
want sex but you dont need to feel
anything sad or bothered at all by what
she said she was being mean thats all
there is to it and her ex was probley not
really that big anyways she just said that
to make you feel bad and yes they do make
smaller dildos ive seen them before. thats
just a load of crap. and i really dont
know for sure if you will still grow or
not but i think you will even though you
dont really need to just dont listen when
she says that crap size is not that
important anyways
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flipper
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Posted: 06-07-08 20:13pm
Yeah, to be honest your size sounds nice
to me. No worries. Even so, what you
do with it really does matter. Some guys
with a large penis never bother to really
learn how to do anything other than the
old "in-out" because they think that
big=perfect. That's not the case at all!
Great sex can come from any size if the
mood is right, there's been plenty of
foreplay and both partners are comfortable
with each other.
By the way, I've never inserted a dildo
further than 4 or 5 inches because my
G-spot is only about 2ish inches in.
That's all I need. The rest beyond
that is just a handle. lol
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GiRo
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Posted: 06-09-08 13:26pm
LOL!
You should totally get back at her!!
Go talk about how your ex girlfriend had
breast size double D!
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Rosie H
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Posted: 06-09-08 13:46pm
hey there. try not to let her comments
bring you down. as you can tell we (most
women) prefer the average size. Anything
bigger than 6 is a waste. Only because
most of us women cant even take it all and
if we do its painful. Thats why men were
created to be about 6 inches. So again try
not to worry. I think you are a very good
size.
And no I dont think you are done growing.
From what I hear most men stop growing at
20-21. Which I feel is true. My hubby and
I got together when he was 18. He is now
almost 21 and it does feel he has gotten
thicker not longer. He doesnt think so,
but I can tell the difference
The rest beyond
that is just a handle. lol
