Over in the mens chat there is a thread going on that is posted for men only and any woman that has attempted to put her two cents in on the subject has been harshly reminded that the post is not meant for a woman's input. The topic is a question to men...do you like loose or tight vaginas. Now, I can understand that no man really wants to have sex if a woman is loose and there isn't much sensation but one post there cracked me up...Quoted...
I asked the question because I get tired of hearing 'it's not the size-it's how you use it' crap from women. I'm gonna state the obvious here guys-
1.) childbirth DOES make the vagina lose some elasticity. My wife has had 3 and it ain't the same as it was. And I didn't shrink!
2.) Not ALL people are the same (we know that). But on a majority of issues- popular opinion counts. Men like tight little vaginas and women like big 'ol- um, you know.
3.) This is not a ALL men or ALL women issue. It is a 'most guys' issue. So girls- stop with the 'size doesn't matter crap' (Women- you should not be reading this anyways so don't spout off). We know the truth.
4.) Guys- if your woman is ok with it- good. But deep down we know what they want (even if it's just once).
Point made! Thanks for participating!
Now, I have read alot of forums, chats, web sites, blogs blah blah blah... It seems to me that 9 out of 10 times the penis size issue is brought up, it is brought up by a man but in the above quoted post this man seems to speak for all women???? Any other women have a problem with that and as far as the size issue...no, we don't want you to be hung like an infant but if you act like one men, we see it like you are no matter what your packing. Size really is irrelevant if you know how to please a woman. Loose or tight? Well men, us women have kegals but you stop growing by the time your 25. Maybe it's not a loose vagina?
AMEN hunny..some men are so freaking consumed with their big "stuff" down there and half the men who are packin somethin big down there think that thats all they need to please a woman..um NO...now i'm not all that sexually experienced..but..SIZE IS NOT EVERYTHING..my guy is about 6 1/2 inches and its plenty for me, i dont want anymore, trust me..he knows how to use it..as for the "loose" thing..you know...this truly infuriates me to read this...your wife BIRTHED YOUR CHILD..how SELFISH can you be to sit there and complain after she has gone through HOURS of labor, and you're upset bc shes not "tight" anymore? WOW...heaven forbid I EVER marry a man that is concerned with how "tight" i am after I birth our child...PLEASE...i cant believe how unbelievably selfish that sounds..pathetic...this guy isn't a man..he's merely a boy..idc what he's packin down there if I had a man with that attitude he would never satisfy me emotionally or physically..his poor wife
I agree my man is a good 8 Inches and I don't want anything bigger then that. Infact somedays I do wish he was a little smaller he has accidentaly hurt me before. I do know 8 is a bit larger then average but men and boys more particular seem to have an inferiority complex about their penises. The fact that this person couldn't even type the word Penis shows his maturity level right there. I have had a man that was no more than 4 inches long and he satisfied me just fine. Ialso know that if my man EVER complained about my vagina being to loose he would be out the door with his things not an hour later. especially if it was after birthing his child.
I know! Every time I have heard the topic of penis size brought up in ANY conversation, it has been a man mentioning it. Women don't seem to care.
And yes, I agree, complaining about your wife not being "tight" enough is shallow. It doesn't mean sex can't be like it was, it simply means you find different NEW ways of making it as good. Surely that's part of the fun? Experimenting?
As for the whole "she's not as tight anymore because she had kids" caca, that's just selfish. She had a child (or two, or three) for you. If anything you should make her feel appreciated for putting her health and well being on the line for it, not complaining that it has made her "loose". If her "tightness" is that much of an issue for you, would you rather she was "tight" and you didn't have any kids? If it's really that much a case of "one or the other", which one would you rather?