Hi,
My wife, whom I dearly love and have been with for over 20years, has complained off and on that there are times where is she gets "too-aroused" [ too much foreplay? ] and it takes away from her orgasm, compared to when she hits her peak with say less foreplay?
Sooo, I've "dialed it back some" with regard to the foreplay, and she seems to enjoy it more when she reaches her peak. Seems quite odd to me...
Anybody else experience this, and/or have solutions?