Women and Masturbation

well i have fun in the shower..the warm water feels really good.lol.i had a girl friend and we both did it to each other at the same time and lets say things got REALLY HEATED..lol..i dont really masterbate it feels weird to me.id rather have it done to me than doing it myself...lol..any stories?

once at work i LOCKED the office
ran to teh bathroom and u knw the rest
i reached wooohoooo but aferward i felt so awful and so sick

lol haha poor thing

LOL anytime i do it while there are other people around i feel guilty and weird. I once did it in the swimming pool change room and just cause i could hear so many different people talking and stuff i felt really guilty and weird.

Susan, masturbation is really better done in private where you are totally comfortable and secure. Other people may actually take offense, and I am sure no parent wants their little children hear you masturbate.

Such behavior is actually very risky and can cause law problems for you. Our ability to control our desires and actions are one of the things that distinguish us from animals that cannot control it. So please be very careful and use some common sense when you want to masturbate.

Take care and stay safe!

didnt mean to be offensive in any way, This wasnt a recent event i was 16 when i did this. over 8 years ago.

I'm 51 years old and never really masturbated at all. I'm happily married but my husband is having testerone level problems and not into sex anymore. I read Fifty Shades and now feel like something happended and I don't know what to do about it. It's like when I do I just want more...Please advise!

You discovered that you are still a sexual being with needs and desires. Good for you! There is no reason why it should not be that way. If your husband does not want to play any more, he can see his doctor to see if he can get some help.

There is nothing wrong with being sexual. It might have surprised you, but it is not unnatural at all. During and after menopause, orgasms will do wonders for your sexual and genital health, and it is doctor approved and encouraged.

As long as you do not deny your husband sex when he wants to participate, there is nothing to feel guilty about helping yourself, or fantasizing. The best option will however be to make him a part of it.

There's nothing more beautiful for a woman than masturbation. It's wonderful to hear you girls talk about masturbation, but it makes me crave all the more for it. I don't know how to. Please refer to my other post. If anybody can help I would really appreciate it.