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Q: 34 wks pregnant alone and depressed
asked by: janye123 on July 23rd, 2009
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my b.f of 8years on and off decided 2wks ago that he didnt want to be with me anymore and started dating another girl. we lived to gether and the house was under my name it was a rental but he paid the bills it is also under his mom name i am pretty sure he has the girl over the house sleeping over and stuff because when i found out what he was doing i took the rent money and my stuff and left i am not at my dads house in south fl and have no a.c i am dying and to think that girl is in my house with what was suppose to be my man. now i am only 21 and i have to other kids from a previous relationship when we broke up a couple years ago he went to jail and i met someone and had two kids. now i am pregnant with my third and his first i was thinking about giving the baby up for adoption because i am not working and havent been my entire pregnancy i was in school and he told me to quit my job he will take care of me now he is taking care of someone else i am so depressed i cant eat or sleep i cant stop thinking about this he was the love of my life and he wants the baby he does not want me to give him up and he wants to be in the hospital room his mom told me i could live with her after the baby is born until i get on my feet but i just dont want to do it again and bymyself he wanted this baby i wanted to get an abortion he even kept the pregnancy test i cant believe he did this he even has my name tattoo on his arm. any advice or similar stories and what you did to deal and what do you think i should do about this "female" in my house obviously she has no self respect
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xomollyxo7
replied on July 23rd, 2009
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Give her a good ole' beat down. Haha. Just joking.

But if you love something set it free, if it was mean't to be it will find its way. He will realize what an fool he is, and look at his arm and think my god, I am so stupid. Trust me, guys are stupid. He will realize his regret and come back. The question is will you take him back? I would not.
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janye123
replied on July 23rd, 2009
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hell no i will never be with him again but what am i suppose to do with this baby he wants it and so does his family but i dont want him in my life anymore i need to move on and i cant take care of the baby by myself i dont have anywhere to live i dont even have a job
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xomollyxo7
replied on July 24th, 2009
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i say listen to your heart. tell them if they want the baby, they can adopt it but you feel you are not able to take care of it right now, therefore if they don't want the baby, it will be adopted out to someone who does.

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CaptainJillian
replied on July 25th, 2009
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I am so sorry this has happened to you. If you feel you cannot keep your child, I would recommend giving it up for adoption. There are so many people that cannot have children that would love the precious gift that you could give them. I am speaking this from my heart because my husband and I have been trying for two years and have lost three babies. So we are looking to adopt now. I wish you the best with everything and if you need to talk you can write me.
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ServiceU
replied on August 2nd, 2009
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if you dont ahve any where to go i suggest you stay with his mother until you get yourself together.
if your able to live with another family member i would suggest that first.
i am a little concerned about your relationship with his mother, you said your not really close. but it will be a place to stay for you and your kids.
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