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Q: Wish to eliminate sex drive
asked by: rls239 on April 7th, 2009
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I have only been with 2 women, one of which was hideous, the other of which shattered my trust in love permanently. I have little interest in getting to know anyone else, or to associate with people period except when necessary for occupational purposes. I will not lower myself to the orgiastic debauchery and polyamory that my generation is plagued with. I wish to permanently erase my (rather high) sex drive, which has grown twisted and backwards anyway due to 5 years of celibacy. Now at 23 years of age, I wish to immerse myself in my work, studies, and hobbies, and consciously silencing any impure thoughts when working with women grows tiresome. I have heard that there are herbs and such that can accomplish this, and that they were sometimes used by monks. I know this seems extreme, but understand, I'm not typical. Autism and antisocial problems run in my family, and I've never been like the others, though I've learned to blend in rather well by now. If at one point I might have enjoyed the company of others, that point has long since passed. Sexual needs do nothing but make my solitary life less comfortable. EDIT: Lowering my testosterone is not an option as I enjoy weight training and physical labor, my body is a machine that must be maintained at peak power and performance.
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Helper_girl
replied on April 8th, 2009
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My advice: Get back on the horse, and ride again. Men are so easily turned off, and away from women, yet they can break every bone in there body from a bike stunt, and be rushing right back to it after they get out of the hospital. I'm not saying this is you, but it is a lot of men.

So you ended up with 2 non-keepers.....so what? At least you're not as bad as a friend I know, who had one bad one and is completely over a love life. I think it is very noble of you to not want to become an egotistical pig and everything in sight....BUT, I do not believe that giving up your sex life is all that glorious either.

You're only 23, with a lot of life ahead of you (hopefully) and sex is another means to keeping healthy and happy. Not all women will hurt you, as some will. We have the same problems, though the fear of being old and alone, keeps us interested in finding a mate before our 30's, usually, as we women know that's when our bodies will start becoming imperfect.

If getting back on the horse doesn't work for you, you could always try smoking pot, as I've heard it does wonders for weakening the sex drive. Or, you could go to your doctor and get diagnosed as to why a healthy (and very sexy sounding) man like you wants nothing to do with sex or human beings, anymore.

I hope you find this in some way helpful. Love can happen bud, just don't give up so easily. Good Luck, man:)
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