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Q: Will long distance relationship work
asked by: Solaced77 on March 26th, 2009
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I'm 19 years old. Am a flirt and I just like to get with girls, for fun for the most part. Recently I met this girl who used to live near here, but is in Germany until December. We spend mornings and nights talking on msn and skype, with also the phone here and there. Lately I've been finding myself falling for her, and doing things with other girls I'd normally be doing, and yet at the same time I want her to be happy over there, for her to be able to get with guys, even though it'll hurt me eventually.

Should I talk to her about it? Should I just give up? Should I?
Basically, Im confused

Any advice would be very much appriciated
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jay1
replied on March 27th, 2009
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Well dude it sounds like you might just be falling in love. We cant control when or how it happens but sooner or later we all meet a girl that we just cant get out of our minds. It sounds like she is probably sharing the same feelings. So, YES! You should talk to her about it. This could be something special you should not give up on it, or you may regret it forever. I think you should continue things with her and see where it goes. It may fizzle out, or may be something special. It cant hurt to find out.
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ServiceU
replied on May 8th, 2009
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if you know your going to be flirting with girls and talking to other women. you should be fair and tell her she should keep herself open. time goes by fast maybe when she comes back y'all can pick up from where y'all started.
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KandyGram
replied on May 9th, 2009
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Coming from a girl's perspective, very few of us want to be in a relationship with a man who is not exclusive. If you want her to take you seriously, you should talk to her and find out what she wants. Then you should try to abide by it. If you don't think that you can meet her expectations, let her know.
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worrywart01
replied on May 9th, 2009
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you need to figure out what YOU want and discuss it with her before someone misinterprets something and gets hurt..if you want other girls right now then you need to tell her that for now things aren't going to work...long distance is hard..very hard..my boyfriend and I went through this 2 months after we first started dating...I was away at college for 8 months and we'd go 3-4 weeks sometimes without seeing each other..it was VERY hard...I dont regret it though..its been 3 years now and we're still together..so..to answer your question YES..a long distance relationship can work..BUT..it will be hard..it will take commitment,trust and dedication...do you see a future with this girl? just talk it out..see what she thinks..but dont promise to be faithful to her while shes away if it isn't a promise you can keep
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