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Q: Wife not trusting
asked by: gopi81 on June 17th, 2009
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I am having a problem from day one with my wife after marriage.. Especially mother-in-law issue, selfishness and dominating character..And also she could not tolerate "NO" immediately that leads her either trying
to commit sucide or getting anger on it till the end. She is also going through the phschatric treatment and now again she has the same issues..

My wife is a working lady.. we have a loveable kid (after a long convince with her to have baby).. but she said is strictly against going for second baby..we have a cooking lady, cleaning people and her father is
with us most of the time since she is not good lot of the above stuff.

Ofcourse,I need to admin my parents family is not a good decision making family and jealous all over there at my parents family circle.. I am staying away with that and focusing on taking care of my parents only..she also taking care of her family
and there is no issues..

Currently, when we have to write a "will deed", she want to put her brother name to take care of the kid after her death.. this is something I could not digest and making me to think what kind of life I am running
so far with her.. She don't have a trust on me but I am the one taking care of all the family expenses ad her money goes on the investment which it is not relevant to me..

I would like to take some firm decision here..

any help would be appreciated..
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JavaMissus
replied on June 17th, 2009
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I would suggest that both you and your wife talk with your lawyer on this...This way you can discuss your problems and get his feedback...They really are pretty learned on this matter....When we made our original Will and Power of Attorney for each other Medically, we discussed this with him at length...It was very educational...In fact, we changed a few of our original plans from this discussion...

I hope all goes well with you...Families can sometime be a drag when there is any interference....This I know...Been there and done that...

Good luck,

Caroline
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