I'm sorry this is a little long, but I really want some advice. When my wife and I started dating,our relationship was very sexual. I actually held off from having sex with her at first because I wanted a different kind of relationship. I really liked her. We fell in love and later moved in together. As soon as she moved in, her sex drive started to decrease. It started to get really bad. I was sexually frustrated everyday and it was affecting everything else in my life. I didn't even know sexual frustration was real until this. I tried so many different things and even though I felt like I brought myself to the ground trying to give her what she wanted, she was never interested in sex. When we talked about it, she seemed like she cared and felt bad, but did nothing about it. This led to me being in bad moods and it was not the life I wanted to be living in my early twenties. I decided I wanted to take a break. I know it sounds stupid, but I really loved her (and still do) so I didn't want to completely lose her. I just thought we needed some time apart. The day I decided to tell her, she told me she was pregnant. I became overwhelmed with joy at the idea of having a kid and pushed my frustrations to the side. I knew I needed to do what was best for the child and made my self imagine this was just a passing phase and things would get well again. We got married and have now been married a year and a half. No change. Honestly, she seems even less interested now. 7months ago I caught her having a phone relationship with a man from another state. Apparantly she met him when she went to visit her friend in FL and what started out as simple flirting led to sexual conversations. I caught her red handed and it took me some time but I forgave. She said it wasn't because she wanted to cheat, she just enjoyed hearing compliments because she was unhappy with her body changes from the pregnancy. I know how women can be about self esteem and she admitted her mistake. I guess at the time she preferred hearing all the compliments I was giving her, from someone else. Now, she shows no sexual interest in me at all. She tells me I look good and tries to be wife-like, but when we're in the bedroom, I wont get more than a hug from her. I'm not even 25 yet and this is killing me. I have so much love to give her, but one of the parts that is most important for me means nothing to her. When I have talked to her about it, she states that she feels like that hormone has just been depleted from her body. This is not a solution. I do not want to spend my sex life in the bathroom by my self or with a woman who is uninterested in me. I love her so much and would never cheat on her. I can't help but think she is just not attracted to me anymore, or maybe attracted to somebody else more. Everything else in our relationship is fine, though other fights do come about when sex is a problem. I don't feel like I can share a bed with someone who is not interested in me. How can I make this better? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.