I will be thirty soon and have just started having some issues with sensitivity.
Let me start by giving some background of my past. I was always very easily aroused both vaginally and clitorally. I was always able to reach orgasm by myself by clitoral stimulation from the time I was 15 years old. I was also able to ejaculate alone by myself. I was even multiply orgasmic. I learned early in my twenties what I needed to orgasm when engaging in intercourse with a man.
I never had any problems reaching orgasm until recently. I had gone through a "dry spell" without masturbating or having sexual intercourse for almost 8 months. I had a new sexual partner and I was able to orgasm the first time we were physically intimate. That was the last time that I have been able to easily reach orgasm with a man. We were together for almost a year and I was never able to orgasm again with him.
It's very difficult for me to orgasm, even by myself. Everything physically feels different than it once used to. I barely have any stimulation to my g-spot and I am not as easily aroused during clitoral stimulation. I was always able to orgasm by myself within a few minutes of stimulation. Now it takes forever. I can barely feel sensation when I touch my clitoris.
My body can produce lubrication and my brain knows that it should feel good. I am aroused when I kiss my boyfriend and I am lubricated then also. I can feel fingers inside of my vagina but not like I used to. My boyfriend says I feel "tight" but I don't feel the elasticity of my vagina gripping onto his fingers.
I've seen three doctors for this and have had testing done to make sure I do not have any infections. They all came back negative. They referred me to a psychologist. I do not feel it is a mental issue. I know my body and how it works. I know what I like and how it used to feel and what it should feel like. I am so frustrated with not having any answers.
Other facts: I have had a leep almost six years ago. I go back for routine paps to make sure that I do not still have moderate dysplasia. A few paps come back here and there for mild dysplasia every once and a while and sometimes they come out fine. I do not think that this is related but just wanted to pass it along.
I've also been told that I have a lot of gas. Not sure if this is related or not. It went away for a while when I took an antibiotic for a sinus infection. I thought that was weird but I just happened to notice it! It came within a month of it leaving them it came back.
Also: I eat healthy, and am a healthy weight for my height. I'm a non smoker, have an occasional drink every now and then, and take an antidepressant for anxiety, stress and depression. I know these can inhibit sexual performance. I had taken this for five years and never had a problem while on it. I stopped taking it for almost a year and realized I needed it so I went back on it. I still had problems with orgasm when I was off my medication and still have the same problem now and I take it daily.
Sometimes I can feel weird tickles in my lower abdominal region, which clearly are not related to digestion. One of the last few times I was able to orgasm I fully felt a rush of these strange lower abdominal tickles during the orgasm. That was the last time I was able to orgasm easily. I still can now, but it is very hard and not as intense as what it once was. It is only about 50 percent intense, if it happens at all.
I get regular periods that have started getting just a bit lighter. Sex can be painful if a penis repeatedly contacts my cervix. I get abdominal pain during and after engaging in long periods of intercourse. I remember always feeling as if I had to urintate during intercourse and masturbation.I know when I have to urinate but the urge does not feel as strong as it did before all of this started. I do not feel this at all now during intercourse or masturbation but do feel the need to urinate after I am finished.
My last doc gave me orders for a pelvic us and blood test. What could these show?
Please give me any info with what could be going on with me. I am way too young to be sexually malfunctioning.