explain the reasons why they break up with you? this may help us more.

please don't be ofended by what i say to you. i m going to talk to you as if you are my sister.

do you have a nasty fisty, moody attitude?
do you sleep with guys fast?

this is a no-no, something i had to learn in my early years. when a guy comes over you should be communication, watching t.v, going out, and not just having sex. some guys will come over for sex and leave.

be very picky with the guys you meet. there's nothing wrong with you walking away if you see red flags.

do you date the "thug type guy"?

some guys just want to have fun.

do you talk about your common interest?
if you cry about marriage, and that's not what they want, they know it's not going to work.

i can only guess b/c i dont know you.

my final advice is try to date a different type of guy. see if you get different results.

To your questions yes and no to thugs well they called themselves thugs lol but they not,alot of guys say i talk to much caca, i cant control that b/c i dont want them getting over me,and sometime i wait about a month to two months to sleep with somebody and sometime its early than that.....im a horney person.i usually talk to men who are older than me b/c they have more to offer and im attracted to them but now i decided to talk to somebody my age and so far everything is going good we havent had sex, i really want to,and come to find out he is a positive person he goes to church and its something about dudes who go to church that make me like them but it seems like he is different from others

i talk to older guys also because i felt some older guys have "been there, done that" vs. a younger guy who just want to have fun and dont want anything.
i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and he made me wait 3 months to have sex when we first met. so he became my bestfriend because all we did was talk about everything. the first time i made love to him i had a strong build up of desire,and i was head over heels in love with him.
i wish you well with your new guy.