DarkFairyDust,
First you must ensure that you use plenty of lubrication otherwise you will get excessive rubbing and it will be painful. I frequently have anal sex and I always use lube.
Wendy

Anal is not for everyone, myself included. My only advice to you is if you get nothing out of it, be honest and say so. You have experimented with it, its not your thing, find a new thing to try.

we use plenty of lube so its no friction. Its doesnt really bother me when he does it, i just dont get that good feeling other people do and i would like to be able to experiance that.

have you tried using a vibrator? I enjoy anal sex and it feels really good. But just anal sex will not make me orgasm. It feels great but that along just isnt enough. I have to have a toy to thoroughly enjoy it.

Maybe use one of thise egg shaped ones. Those are fun and easy to use during anal. The orgasm combined w/clitoral stimulation and anal sex is mind blowing.

What my woman and I finds is mind blowing is that I put a small vibravating penis (no more than 4") in her anus, while my penis is in her vagina, and with the vibrator on and I'm moving in and out of her; it is mind blowing! Sometime we changes up, with the vibrator in her vagina and my penis in her anus, I am able to feel the vibration through the wall of her vagina and anus, either way, it is a good feeling!

Good advice! But remember to WASH the vibrator before inserting into the vagina after it has been in the "back door" (This comment is for those who may not know better)

Good advice motherofhighsprirtedones,I washes the vip. after I pull it out of the back door and I also uses a condom before I enter the back door!

I have to be extremely stimulated relaxed and lubed to have anal sex. when we do it which is not often it's usually at the end and I use a vib on my clit and it feels great. you cannot be tense at all during anal sex or it will be very painful.