Hi,

It sounds to me that he is just currious. Most people learn about what they enjoy or what other people enjoy by watching porn or at least learn about sex. He also might be bisexual or bicurious.

You could try asking him about it subtuly, maybe hire some lesbian porn and say you might think it would be exciting for you both to watch it, and later some gay porn and say you were curious and make him watch it with you.

The most important thing is to make him feel comfortable and that you understand, Im sure he still loves you, and I'm pretty sure its just curiousity but the main thing is to be comfortable in your relationship and frank with each other, even if its not direct. Besides what's the point in investing time and energy to a relationship for longer than necessary?

I hope this is helpful

Thanks, but he always talks about people being gay. I have a brother who is bisexual and he's always making nasty comments and likes to talk S!#$. I'm scared to talk to him because i'm afraid that he will get upset that i found out.

Sometimes a person talks too much about something that they "hate"....For many it is kind of playing the acceptance game...They are making their mind believe that this is OK...Or just maybe, being a little bi curious....

Now about being scared to talk to your boyfriend because he will get mad, this is another story...This is non-acceptable...If you have a good relationship, nothing is off limits....This is the reason for the closeness to start...If it bothers you, than speak about it.....

Good luck,
Caroline