I'm really confused and desperately need some advice. I split from a guy about 4 years ago and it was a really traumatic split. Basically he was seeing me and another girl at the same time. I didn't know that I was party to his cheating....but I found out! To cut a long story short, he came to me when he was having money problems back then, I'm not rich so I couldn't help him out. I found out that after he went to me, he went to her - she's from a rich family and she obliged and helped him out with money etc. I pulled him up on this after I discovered him cheating, I had no idea he had someone else. I told him he couldn't possibly love her, as he cheated on her with me while she was pregnant and also got me pregnant too! I didn't have the child which still weighs heavily on my mind. Since then I've heard that he's had a couple of kids to her and they're living together.
I haven't seen him for four years. So, I was surprised that just a couple of days ago he beeped his car horn at me and played a car request 'bigging her up'. I know he plays back pre-records of his shows when he's driving. He's an internet radio DJ and I'd recognise his voice anywhere! It was definitely his car and he purposefully turned up his car stereo for when this request was made. Why did he do this? If he's that happy where he is, why would he feel the need to wind down his car window, beep me and play a request to his current woman? I've had no contact with him so why is he bothered what I think? And why would he still want me to know that he's with her? I'd really appreciate the help on this one...