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Q: Why can't I find love?

asked by: lonelysoulhere on February 22nd, 2009

New User

I've never had a long term relationship with any girl, the only girlfriend ive had was over the internet for about a month (it was intense I fell in love with her etc and she broke my heart but I got over it Smile

) but I can't seem to get a girlfriend at all, and its not like I don't try, I go out occasionally and chat with girls, be friendly and truthful, but they always say "well I like you but just as friends" which is ok since ive made alot of girl-friends who I now talk to alot, but I feel lonely and everyone seems to be in a relationship but me, I just want to know why no girls seem to fancy me. Oh im ok looking according to my friends, im very friendly can be shy but I get over it, I am sort of a geek star trek science etc and I do tend to stay home more then I go out to socialise. And im 18

Replies(4)

Lizze

replied on February 22nd, 2009

New User

Theres a saying that nobody can love you if you dont learn to love yourself first..and that is something very true.perhaps you try too hard or come accross as desperate?girls can sense that a mile away and it can be a huge turn off or maybe ure a bit insecure?not comfortable with yourself?so what if ure a geek!geeks can be good looking too!just look at seth from the oc lol!my advice is to not go out looking for it-it happens when you least expect it,i know it sounds cliche but its true.meanwhile,ure still young!go out,have fun meet new friends!good luck!

J3nnyuk

replied on February 22nd, 2009

Moderator

Hi lonelysoulhere.....and welcome to ehealth...firstly i agree with Lizze about loving yourself.....And not coming over to desperate!.........Go out more relax don't just go out to look for a girlfriend because they will sense that in you.....Just have a good night.....Have a laugh and you will soon find one....You got your life ahead of you yet Razz

...Good luck....Jenny

ServiceU

replied on May 22nd, 2009

Supporter

your lonely and that is a human emotion. you are young, and being shy and staying at home isnt going to get you any where.

the more your out socializing the higher of a chance you have in meeting someone.
all women dont like thug type guys, my b/f a geek and i love em.

do you have a myspace page, facebook etc. this is one way to meet friends. you have to put yourself out there.

Sukki

replied on May 23rd, 2009

Experienced User

Geeks are cute and smart. i find shyness irresistible, actually~
all women are different

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