I been with my bf for almost 3 years . our sex life was great we had sex almost every day I never had trouble feeling good or having an orgasm . It takes a lot more than penetration to make me orgasm. Now no matter how hard I try to feel something I just can't.. I try so hard to feel something but I just can't ! So sometimes I just fake it because I don't want to make my bf feel bad. I don't know what to do any more, I tried to masturbate but I can't I feel weird . I used to love sex I would have sex with my bf every day and I would still play with my self after. I was able to go for hours with my bf and now I just can't . I don't know what happened with me .. I can't have sex any more:(
Something changed. Did you start any new prescription or over the counter drugs? Did you have a pregnancy scare? Did you move? Do you have any stress, worry or concerns? Are you private when you have sex? Do you lubricate? Did your periods/cycles change? Do you still spend the same time on foreplay/intercourse?
You hint at the fact that it took substantial effort to orgasm previously. I am assuming that you mean direct clitoral stimulation? This is the norm. Women that orgasm from just penetration is the lucky minority by far. Anything that change that amount of stimulation can affect your ability to orgasm.
What changed your experience of masturbation? You say you used to be able to masturbate after sex, but now you feel weird? Did you have a traumatic experience?