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December 4th, 2011
Who's my baby's daddy!?

Hi guys wondering of you can help. Not sure if it's my mind doing overdrive and I'm just being paranoid but here is my problem.

Back in March on the 18th I had sex with my new partner for the 1st time. He ejaculated in me so the next day went and took the morning after pill. My ex bf I was sleeping with regularly so not sure on an exact date for him.

My 1st scan which was an early pregnancy scan said I was 8 weeks and 1 day pregnant so I must have conceived on 11th march
My 2nd scan which was my 12 week scan showed 5 days difference and works out I conceived on the 6th March.
My 3rd scan at 20 weeks measures the same as my 12 week

So these 2 dates show that the baby is my ex's. But I have gone overdue with the baby and the day I am
Booked in to get induced is the day I would have been due if it was my new partners.

Me and my ex have now got back together as I'm pregnant and I would be devastated of the baby was not his now.

Do you believe this is just coincidence? Or do you think the hospital may have got my dates wrong and my real due date is actually the day Im getting induced?!?
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AST0126
replied December 6th, 2011
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It could be either partner, really no way to tell. Due dates are not an exact science neither is fetal growth measurements. I had a difficilt pregnancy and was given a due date of 2/17/2011. I had to get BPP every 3 days in which they measured the fetus. They induced me 3 weeks before hand because they thought the baby was too small (2 pounds) and not growing. My son came to this world heathly and normal weighting 5.8 pounds. You would think with all the sonograms and measurement they would have gotten it right, wrong.

So I take it the morning after pill did not work? Was the baby's health impacted by the pill? I know it is too late now, but having sex without a condom places in at risk for HIV and other illnesses.

I beleive when babies are born they look like thier father, for the reason of being able to protect themselves (human evolution). While I have never been in your situation, if you look at your new baby and how he behaves the answer will come to you.
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Expectingmummy
replied December 6th, 2011
The baby wasn't effected at all by the pill, the doctors were aware that i had taken it and has been healthy all the way through. I have developed a few things like high blood pressure and protein in my urine due to "being over due" this sort of also indicates that the baby is who I suspect

The thing about the baby looking like their dad is very interesting, thanks for this bit of info!
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AST0126
replied December 6th, 2011
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It could be either partner, really no way to tell. Due dates are not an exact science neither is fetal growth measurements. I had a difficilt pregnancy and was given a due date of 2/17/2011. I had to get BPP every 3 days in which they measured the fetus. They induced me 3 weeks before hand because they thought the baby was too small (2 pounds) and not growing. My son came to this world heathly and normal weighting 5.8 pounds. You would think with all the sonograms and measurement they would have gotten it right, wrong.

So I take it the morning after pill did not work? Was the baby's health impacted by the pill? I know it is too late now, but having sex without a condom places in at risk for HIV and other illnesses.

I beleive when babies are born they look like thier father, for the reason of being able to protect themselves (human evolution). While I have never been in your situation, if you look at your new baby and how he behaves the answer will come to you.
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