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Q: who is the father
asked by: windang on June 15th, 2009
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i made a huge mistake in my life that currently bothering me right now.can you help me plz. my 1st day of my LMP was february 3.it lasted for 7 to 8 days.im a 32days cycle i guess,im not sure about it.i had sex with this guy on the 15th of february he pulled it out.,i admit i cheated on my bf and im really regretting it now. then me and my bf had an unprotected sex on the 16th,17th,18,19th of february and he ejaculates inside me.im now pregnant.my due date is on november 10, 2009 as the doctor calculated.but im confused when did my baby conceive and who might be the father im so scared that it might not be my boyfriend plz help me plz... thank you. hope to see your answer soon
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zigemyster
replied on June 15th, 2009
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For me this one is too close to call. A woman can still get pregnant from the pull-out method.

Why not ask your doctor the date that s/he feels that you conceived.
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windang
replied on June 16th, 2009
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im scared to ask my boyfriend is always with me during my check ups oh my gosh
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windang
replied on June 16th, 2009
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please help me guys...........
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wendyrs
replied on June 18th, 2009
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I'm not sure the doctors can actually tell the date of conception. Yes, you can get pregnant using the pull-out method. I have an 18 year old son to prove it can happen. The only thing you can do here is hope and wait until the baby is born, take a perternity test. If it is his, great. If the baby is not his, you will have to decide then whether or not you want to be honest and tell him the truth. He has a right to know the truth and so does the child. I've heard of people lying about this sort of thing and it always comes back to bite them. Eventually, the truth always comes out...Goodluck!
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Rani118
replied on June 18th, 2009
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in order to guess at an appropriate answer, you have to know the date that you ovulate. Sometimes women ovulate anywhere from day 11 to day 15, 16. To know the true date, you have to know what how long your Luteal Phase is as well. If on the 15th, that is day 12 for you, and the rest of the days is day 13,14 & 15 of your menstrual cycle- right smack in the middle of when ovulation can occur. If we generalize, a 32 day cycle would mean that if you ovulated on the 12th day (feb 15) you would have a Luteal Phase of 20days, which seems improbable. Because a LP should last anywhere from 12-18 days. Id go that you conceived on day 15.
but that is just me. if i confused you im sorry, but fertility is math, and it requires a lot more thorough info than wha tyou have provided.
good luck.
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susan862003
replied on June 18th, 2009
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Looking at the odds it is more likely that your boyfriend is the father but it all depends on your ovulation date. The fact that the other guy pulled out makes it less likely that it is him although not impossible.
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