how many days is your cycle??

usually what i do is add 3 months and 1 week to the estimated due date and get an estimated date of conception. but that puts us at april 17th (i dont think its possible that the sperm stayed in you alive for 6 days... youre positive it was april 10 and 11th when you had sex?). and this is based off of someone with a 28 day schedule.

Yes i am very very positive it was april 10 and 11th with man#2 and my cycle is 28 days forsure cause i was taking birthcontrol.

Yes i am very very positive it was april 10 and 11th with man#2 and my cycle is 28 days forsure cause i was taking birthcontrol.

how did you come up with your due date?

if you use your LMP, march 20th, then you should have ovulated around april 3rd (w/ 28 day cycle). which would make more sense because you had sex on april 1st.

i just did a due date calculator based on your LMP and it said December 25th, 2009 is your due date. we are only a few days apart in our due dates, if this is true =)

the doctor came up with the due date ive had 3 ultrasounds already and im 19 weeks now and doctor keeps sayin april 10th

im sorry he keeps sayin due date is jan.10,2010

hmm. strange. i really dont know what to tell you! im 21 weeks... so yeah, a due date of 1.10 would make sense if youre 2 weeks behind me. i guess it had to of been from the sex on the 11th! are you planning on doing a paternity test when the baby is born? thats really the only way to truely know who the father is... because im really confused now! lol

good luck with your pregnancy though!!! do yuo know what youre having yet? i find out tomorrow morning. the anticipation is killing me =)

also... i know you said you were on birth control. maybe that is what is messing me up. you probably just ovulated differently, instead of 14 days in to your cycle. i dunno! but thats the only thing i can think of if the doc is absolutely positive youre only 19 weeks along.

yes thats what he says,it seems as though i may have to do a dna ill have to see cause man#1 is latin and man #2 is african american and pretty dark so we will see, jus a lil stressful sometimes and no i dont know next week im suppose to find out im excited too, do you have any other children? i have a lil girl she is 3 yrs. old i will be happy with whatever god blesses me with but i kinda want a boy lol

we are like complete opposites! i have a little boy already. he will turn 8 a couple weeks before i have this baby. so im kind of hoping for a little girl this time around =) there is only so much boogie eating and farting one woman can take haha. i will def. be happy with whatever i end up with too. im just excited because one i find out ill be able to buy clothing and the crib and start planning the baby shower. =) i think once you hit 20 weeks everything gets much more exciting. youre able to feel the baby move more, every day you get closer and closer to having the baby, you find out if its a boy or girl, etc.

and i think once the baby is a week old you should be able to tell who he/she looks more like, so maybe you wont even need a dna test. my sons father made me get one for our son. which was retarded because i was with him for 3 years and never cheated. but... i did it anyway and let him pay for it lol. not to get personal, but do either of the men want to be the father or are both of them out of the picture now?

The second man wants to be there i mean we were always on and off, now the first man is out of the picture i really regret sleeping with him because he's really not a good person, it was my poor judgement but hey u learn from your mistakes.So were pretty close in due dates not to get all personal either but did u have intercourse on the first of aptil also? or in that week or earlier?

my date of conception is like april 6th or something like that, i think. or maybe the 3rd. my original due date was dec 29th but when i had my first ultrasound done the baby measured 3 days bigger so it was moved to dec 26th. regardless, i think im going to end up having my baby on someone elses bday that i know. everyone i know is born in december. my babys daddy is dec 27th, my older brother and cousin are dec 26th, my moms best friend and my friends baby is the 29th, my little bro and sis are the 16th, my son is the 4th... lol it should be fun!

Hey mylove2
This far into the pregnancy your doctor's estimates should be accurate. However they are just estimates based on hormonal activity and fetal growth, both can be affected by a variety of factors. Given that the two men were only 10 days apart it could very easily be either of them. Before you decide that anyone is the father you owe it to them to offer them a paternity test. I know this is an uncertain time for you and you're concerned for your baby but fatherhood is a life-altering obligation. It would not be right to run let one man or the other assume they are the father if you're not sure.

my love i am in the same problem!!!! with very close dates to you also!!
i can'tremember my last period date and i slept with my boyfriend on the 3rd 4th and 10th april we then broke up and somewhere between the 25th april and the 3rd may i had sex with man 2* i have been given the 14th jan for my due date and had 2 scans one on the 13th june which said i was 9 weeks and another on the 7th july which said i was 12 weeks 5 days i was very worried about this and did talk to my midwife who explined that when your scan dates you it tells you how long the baby has been growing there for dating you from conception not your last period. your scan date can be out by 6 days but in early scans it is very unlikely to be out by anymore that 6 days.
your midwife is there to help and wont judge you talk to them you'll really know where you stand then.
my boyfriend is most likely to be the father but we have both decided to have a dna test when the baby is born to be sure.
hope this helps and i hope you are enjoying being pregnant again xx