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My friend slept with 2 guys one on a wednesday and the other I believe she slept with for four full days from the saturday of that same week to the next Wednesday. The one on the Wednesday was 3 days after her period and he didn't ejaculate in her, but the one on the saturday ejaculated on all four days in her. They usually say that ovulation is from day 14 but in my experience one can get pregnant at any given time in their cycle, but given that the man she slept with the most ejaculated in her on her most fertile days, would he most likely be the father of her child compared to the man who didn't ejaculate in her? Confusing if you ask me, but basically one came inside her when she was most likely ovulating and the other didn't come inside her when she wasn't ovulating anyway??? She has feeling of suicide and abortion, but I amtrying to support in any way that I can. Can an experienced, non-biased, non-judgemental, mature person answer this question please? Thank you
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replied August 31st, 2010
Hi,
Welcome to ehealthforum.
The chances of her being pregnant with the second guy is more since she is likely to be in her fertile period at that time and the unprotected intercourse with ejaculation inside would possibly result in pregnancy.
Having depression is common in pregnancy. Support her with all means and help her realise that she has a baby growing inside her and she should take care of herself and the child. If she did not want to get pregnant, she should have taken measures to avoid it in form of birth control measures or emergency contraception.
If she does not want to continue with the pregnancy, let her discuss about safe measures for abortion with her gynecologist, rather than thinking of suicide.
Take care.



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replied August 31st, 2010
I am doing the best I can to keep her from harming. he would he happy if the pregnancy was sure to be that of the second guy as she is more committed to him,but the uncertainty is making her a bit paranoid. I think by now she is too far along for abortion. She started worrying when the ultrasound moved her due date forward by 3 days because she slept with guy number one 3 days before her boyfriend I guess. I don't know how it works, but is that why the dates changed? I'm sure it will turn out ok, but just don't wnat her hurt, she has recently stopped eating and sleeping enough.
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replied August 31st, 2010
I am doing the best I can to keep her from harming. he would he happy if the pregnancy was sure to be that of the second guy as she is more committed to him,but the uncertainty is making her a bit paranoid. I think by now she is too far along for abortion. She started worrying when the ultrasound moved her due date forward by 3 days because she slept with guy number one 3 days before her boyfriend I guess. I don't know how it works, but is that why the dates changed? I'm sure it will turn out ok, but just don't wnat her hurt, she has recently stopped eating and sleeping enough.
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