white excretions from vagina

my vagina has white slimers comes out,sometimes a dried white film in mornings on lips, when i awaken,it smells awful like rotten meat or a dead carcus laying on the road in the hot sun thats been deceased a week,other times it reaks of rotten pizza,its been this way ever since i can remember,im in 30's now and had kids,its never went away,doctors told me its totaly normal and everything is fine,my husband disagrees,as no other woman he's been with had these discusting odors and the constant slimey white discharge that im thinking is eggs releasing from my overies,the only way to have sex with out him vomiting or drye heaving is me taking a bath before sex,also my breasts are full of lumps,some as big as chicken eggs and many like marbles,doctors told me yrs ago once i had kids and nursed these would go away,no change 2 kids later, then because im under 40 the insurance refuses to pay for a mamogram,cancer runs in my family,but they do not care