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Q: when did i concieve?
asked by: belly22 on April 23rd, 2008
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my due date is december 14,2008. doctor says iam 6wks, my frist day of my last period was march 7,2008 and my menstrual cycle is 28 day can anyone tell me when did i concieve? please help me i really need to know Sad
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StacyHoll
replied on April 23rd, 2008
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Your doctor would know the span of time you were most likely were able to concieve.. However, it really could have been at anytime. Everyone has there fertile days during the cycle, but its possible to get pregnant at anytime during the month. If s/he was able to tell you your due day. S/He would be able to tell you the most likely time.. Good luck finding out! ALL the best!
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belly22
replied on April 23rd, 2008
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when did i concieve ?
well iam having an ultrasound done this friday? to make sure how many weeks i am and then i can probably do the math. thank you.
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StacyHoll
replied on April 23rd, 2008
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Yes when they did my first ultrasound they gave me an estimate. Then when I had my second ultrasound they said I was actually further along. Only DNA will know.
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belly22
replied on April 23rd, 2008
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when did i concieve?
yeah i just hope it helps me i could never live my life not knowing. but then again i am afraid of telling my boyfriend there might be a chance the baby is not his. just the thought frightens me. i feel really bad.
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belly22
replied on April 23rd, 2008
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when did i concieve?
but if they give me and estimate of time how do i do the figuring of it?
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StacyHoll
replied on April 23rd, 2008
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I am sorry you're in that position it must be hard. Its definitly a triky situation its just good for the baby to know when it grows up. Because it would be sad if it was raised without knowing who dad is.. I would definitly get it checked out. Ofcourse it will be hard, but its about the child not the boyfriend. Its totally up to you. You were seperated when you slept with the other too right? So, did you have unprotected sex with both.
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belly22
replied on April 23rd, 2008
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when did i concieve?
yes i know. yes my boyfriend and i were seperated at both times. frist i always have unprotected sex with my boyfriend. and the other guy i was suppose to go to the doctor but just didnt have time it just skiped out dont know and by the 29 of march i did go but got and emercency pill by the 31st of the month.for the past 2 years we been having sex that is my boyfriend and i the first 1 and a half i used birth control after so many months i never used protection stupid i know.
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StacyHoll
replied on April 23rd, 2008
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No its not stupid.. You know people do it. ALOT of people do.. Even I did Smile I only slept with one person and it took 4 years to get preg, but it happened. It can always happen. So you took the emergency pill on the 29th...
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mominashoe
replied on April 23rd, 2008
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It's hard not knowing, but I think the ultra sound is accurate, especially if you are a regular person with a 28 day cycle, which is ideal for the standard due date calculations. It looks like you ovulated one week after your period started, which really makes sense: a lot of women are that way.

If you were sleeping with 2 guys in the same month, it's going to be almost impossible to tell. If you were only sleeping with one guy since you think you got pregnant (the 14th of March by the calculations) then it's whoever that guy is, assuming that was when you got pregnant.

But really only a DNA test is going to tell who whose it is if you can't figure it out. Some guys don't have a high sperm count or any viable sperm and it could be the case with one of them. Or something else could have happened. That's why, I guess this is obvious for you now, that you stick to only one partner and if you "break up" with someone, you better make sure it's permanent before you start something with someone else. So many people on this board have this problem of not knowing who the father of their baby is because they quarreled one day, got with someone else the next day, and then got back with the first guy the next. Too late!

DNA tests are simple and easy to get, but only after the baby is born. You are going to have to tell your boyfriend the truth about what happened, and if he loves you, he will stick it through with you. If he doesn't, he's not man enough to be with you or be a good father.
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belly22
replied on April 24th, 2008
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When did i concieve?
How old is your baby is it great to be a mommy now!!!!
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