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Q: whats happening to us?
asked by: littlelindylou on June 16th, 2009
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k so me and my bf have been living together for a month now. and ever since i moved in, hes been acting weird, we've been fighting lots. we used to have sex 1-3 times a day. now we rarely have sex. i try to seduce him, but he always comes up with an excuse,.. " i dont feel good,i want a sandwich, im going for a smoke" its endless. im starting to think hes losing interest. I tried to seduce him lasnight and he said no he didnt want to have sex with me. so i started thinking like " what if he pushes me too far that i cheat? " (btw, ive never cheated before) and then i had a dream that i cheated and i told him, and he took it the wrong way, so now he thinks im gonna cheat on him Sad. he used to ask me to spend more time with him, and now that i do he says i spend to much time. i dont know what im suppossed to do Sad , and i dont want to lose him ..


HEEEEELLLLLPPPPP
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JavaMissus
replied on June 17th, 2009
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You are 15 and dating a 23 year old man!!!...Personally I think you are trying to grow up way too fast...I guess this would be my answer....
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ServiceU
replied on June 19th, 2009
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are you really that young! this is the reason why we tell our children not to rush into relationships. young people see the glitz and glamor of it all, but being an adult you know the good, bad, and the ugly of it all.
i m only going to talk to you about men. some men get bored easy, some cheat, some have so many issues they have to deal with and it will ride on their partners shoulders, some men are mommas boys, abusive, possesive. this is just a few of the ugly. sometimes you dont really know the person until you live with them. these problems is hard for an adult female to handle so why throw yourself in the water with a shark.
i suggest you move back with your mom or a family member. Do you have a place to go if yall separate?
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