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Q: What would you if you were me

asked by: james-toni on April 19th, 2008

New User

Well i new at this post but it been very helpful. Let me start off saying my wnts another child we have a 3 month son he but he want to try for a girl he a great father. But i am not ready plus he has a heart disease i told him ehat if something happen to him what am i going to do. What about my kids it seem like he's trying to get me pregnant. I have told him maybe we should wait. But when we have sex it a different story because he's and he doesn't want me taking pills. I feel like i shouldjust take something without him knowing. What do you think and what about if i am pregnant already what do i do. Have other children from prevous and he has a son that's staying with us permently. I feel like the brady bunch but he said he love kids and it doesn't matter because he can take care of them. What you think

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jodie 16

replied on April 20th, 2008

Experienced User

IT IS UP TO YOU ? IF YOU WANT ANOTHER ONE HAVE IF NOT DONT.
HEART DISEASE I DONT THINK THT SHOULD BE AN ISSUE AS IT WOULD BE GOOD FOR HIM TO MAKE THE MOST OF HIS LIFE HAVING A BABY GIRL SOONER TO HIM IS BETTER AS HE WILL GET MORE TIME WITH HER
YOU SHOULD BOTH TALK TOGHETEHR

CoolGlassofH2O

replied on April 24th, 2008

Experienced User

omg wow, no matter how much you guys love each other it is your body. if you both want one then go for it if he does and you dont then dont. it would go both ways too, if you wanted one and he didnt then you shouldnt cause you both have to be on the same page about this. be careful and take care of yourself

StacyHoll

replied on April 24th, 2008

Experienced User

I would wait till the feeling is mutual.. How much do you want another baby?

bubblycat

replied on May 2nd, 2008

Experienced User

Dont do it....Ive got one and think i should have another just so mine has a sibling but then again if youre not SURE...dont!! Sounds like you guys have a few, so just enjoy what you have, unless your millionaires of course and can afford it...well thats diffeent then but like you said your hubby has a heart condition....would you cope ok on your own??? Thats what worries me, my hubbies 47, 13 years older than me and i worry about looking after another. I know im ok with the one and of course would be with another too but would i be as happy?????

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