My husband and I have been married for 2 years and been together for at least 4 years. I have a 7 year old from a previous man, and my current husband told me in the beginning he wanted no kids of his own at all. I honestly thought he meant no conceiving any of his own. I think I was wrong, I am 31yrs and I have had a partial hysterectomy 6 years ago due to health problems. Well I think I am way wrong about my husband and the whole wanting kids thing. My 7 year old was diagnosed with ADHD, High Anxiety and Autistic, and boy does my husband know how to run for the hills on his days off. Am I just stupid for not seeing any of this or should I actually suggest counseling?