He sounds like a flake to me...sorry to say that but I don't trust guys who disappear when it is convenient for them...tricks are for kids if you know what I mean...dump the chump.Like you say,your young and there are lots of fish in the sea so don't wast time and emotions on some one who is only there when its convenient for them...

You understand that it's not that easy, he'll come and try to lure you back in, your feelings for him will most likely help you give in. It's the same with any relationship, there's an attachment that will be really tough to break, but you must move on. The best way is to be honest, state the facts, but don't be mean, be strong. It's not fun or healthy to be in such an unstable relationship. And remember always to be cautious with sex, don't want to put your life at risk by slacking. Hope it all works out.

Good point,rjgalindo. If he is playing around and not having safe sex...which he probably isn't since he is a sneak...then you are putting your life on the line for what? A creep who thinks he can play you like the violin? Be careful I had a boyfriend who I was completely faithful to give me an STD and still denied ever cheating even though I knew he was...and like a fool I stayed with him for 2 years after that.So please...keep your head on straight and don't get too involved in being the victim.

I agree - dump the chump!

This is SOOOOOOO much in relation to what I went through with a guy I "dated" for about three weeks. He was all interested in me, we dated a few times, got frisky, and then he pretty much disappeared when he thought it was convenient. Well strike one, two, three, and you're out!

The dealbreaker was when he blew me off to hang out one Saturday night. I was so falling in love with him as well, but it dawned on me that it was for all the wrong reasons. We still keep in contact on occaison, but nothing more (I'm not the type to keep a grudge on people - but that doesn't mean I don't forget).

Point is - you are being played. Either that or the communication part of his brain is broken. Or he thinks that you two are in an open relationship.

Did you guys talk about what you both want out of the relationship? Something tells me no.

Dump him if he's going to play like that.

do not ignore the red flags a person sends out to you. just because of love i ignored the red flags and i lost so much in the end material, and emotional.