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what should i do?

i have lived with my husband for almost 3 years but we have only been married a little over a year, last night we got into a fight nothing out of the ordinary just regular fight but it got escalated and he smacked me in the face, and blacked my eye and burst the blood vessel in my eye ball and i don't know what to do......i need help.
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replied July 12th, 2010
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Hi Awilkerson:...First I would definitely stop trying to get pregnant until I got my life in order, then I would get some counseling....When a man hits you he will usually repeat this happening...What he did to you is serious...The rest is up to you..Take care...

Caroline
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replied July 12th, 2010
thanks so much, im def. back on my pill will not bring a child into a nightmare, i am so conflicted i have been abused by an ex boyfriend and i never thought i could fall into this again, one part of me says to get the he** out now and the other half tells me to wait and see if it was only a one time thing and will never happen again and if it does wait for him to go to work pack up and get out. I just don't know i mean if he wanted to hit me wouldnt he have already done in it? in the past 3 years?
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replied July 12th, 2010
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Hi again: The thing is that he has now done it...And it was not a nudge...One thing I do want to say...A child will not help your relationship...Some people or women will have one to try and make the perfect happy family....It just doesn't happen that way...Give yourself space before you bring a new life into your world...Take care...

Caroline
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