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Q: what should i do
asked by: kata_vietnam on July 14th, 2009
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we are specail friend . it means we use sex for communicating. Because he has just broken up with his gf. im so stupid. I know he is sad and depress. thats why i wanna let him get hope back. Come to his house - talk to him. listen to him - make love with him - cook for him

I try to take him for going out with me but couldnt. When i come to his house, he didnt treat me properly. No drink, no food, no ask about me. Just make love and sometime he sings , play guitar, play piano.

He always tell me - DONT GIVE UP . keep my time keep my affection for him. Someday he will reply. Oh my god. Im not superwomam but i have hope and i hate to be alone , wanna have long term relationsip

But today i used the another nick and chat with him. hope that he will be happy (Sure that he know who i am). But he is angry at me and told that i am playing game. He dont wanna talk to me anymore. Dont answer my phone , dont reply my mess. invisible me

What should i do. I am so confuse. Let him alone and stay away or continue to make him better.
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W0LF
replied on July 15th, 2009
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Hey kata
I think you may have started this too soon after he broke up with his last girlfriend. It sounds like he was not ready to start a new relationship and having you around prevented him from getting over the last girl. He is angry for a reason but it may not make sense and you don't need to figure it out. Give him time. Tell him in person that you are sorry if you hurt him but you need some time away from him. Stay away for a month, let him heal, come back and see if he is ready.
Good luck.
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breck08
replied on July 15th, 2009
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Sweetie you can tell him you can be his friend but nothing else. By doing things to make him feel better you are degrading yourself. You are sending the wrong message. Leave him be. You do not have to be mean or disrespectful by doing so. You can be honest and say you want more out of the relationship than what he is ready to give right now. I wish you luck!
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ServiceU
replied on July 19th, 2009
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leave him alone he is heartbroken, and he is going through something.
it will take so much energy to help him and make him happy. he needs to heal, if you stay with him, will leave you in his condition....sad and depressed.
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