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Q: What my mother did to me one time.
asked by: woops on February 2nd, 2009
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She is an unfair controlling hypocrite, there wasn't anybody in that house that she didn't cause to get angry at some point and time. Only when she does it to me and I get angry and emotional she calls the authorities and I get locked up in a mental institution for over a month, she used my status to get me under control. I wasn't having any symptoms of mental illness, she treats me like garbage and I get angry, and upset and I go to the looney bin. And that ain't no lie. She used my status to get rid of me, and it hurts. Have you ever lived with somebody like this, these kinds of unfair ruling idiots, it's like dealing with stalin and his goons. And it's even worse when you have the horrible stigma of insanity, you can't show any emotion or any sign of being upset or you'll get locked up, even when the reason you are upset is by having your buttons pushed and being treated bad, while these hypocrites are freaking having fist fights with eachother and nobody gets called. And she did it to everybody in the house, she would get them angry and then it would be their fault. She is a very toxic individual. So, that is what my mother did. In a nutshell, treat me bad and then lock me up when I react to it. There is no telling what she told them about me that caused them to lock me up. Mind you, I wasn't showing any symptoms of schizophrenia. An entire month in the crazy house for simply not agreeing with her idiocy and reacting to being treated unfairly.
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franjapani
replied on February 4th, 2009
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hiya
hello, I know when I was ill (psychosis) I thought everyone was out to get me, including my partner of 10 years. When I got better I realised they were just doing there best to help. But if you are very unwell your relatives cant always cope with everything you throw at them and so need help. i dont know if thats true in your case of course. I will agree with you that I think everyone is looking at everything I do to see if its a little mad! But this is just them caring and looking for early warning signs that it is happening again. Hope you feel better soon.
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woops
replied on February 4th, 2009
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No, it's not like that, I wasn't showing any symptoms whatsoever, she does something crappy to me and I get mad and she gets me locked up. And I mean she really knows how to hurt your feelings.
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woops
replied on February 4th, 2009
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And they only locked me up because I was a previously diagnosed schizophrenic, I suppose Im not allowed to stand up for myself or ever show any emotion because people will think that Im having schizophrenia trouble, not being treated like crap by their own family trouble. I suppose she may not have recognized what the situation truly was, only me being upset and not schizophrenic, but that would be really stupid and I think that she is smarter than that. I must stress that I wasn't having any symptoms at the time. I was locked up for being angry, and I wasn't being paranoid, she was totally being unfair and mean, I deserved to be upset. And istead of being treated like an upset person who happened to be schizophrenic, I was treated as if I was in the middle of a freaking horrible episode, and all I really was was upset with her and for good reason.

Ahhhh, se la ve (did I spell that right?)
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SaltMines
replied on February 6th, 2009
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Talk to your mother and tell her you think she's over-reacting. Ask her to videotape you next time you have one of your episodes, or install nanny cams (hidden cameras) without her knowing so you can use it as evidence the next time she tries to have you hospitalized. In the meanwhile, voice your concerns to your school counsellor or other mental health professional.

Also, it's "c'est la vie."
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ccronan
replied on April 24th, 2009
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What MY mother(?) did to me
I too lived with a contolling dictator for a mother?(?) My whole life I was treated with spite and disdain, always left to feel there was something innately wrong with me. She once told me she hated me and she wished I had never been born. WHY??? I never did know why, when I was growing up. I have 2 brothers and 3 sisters. they did NOT have this type of relationship with her, although it was clearly evident she was depressed for MANY years. My reaction to life was chronic anxiety and the internal push to try harder, because somehow I wasn't good enough for my mother (?) At age 33 my dad (?) tells all his loving children that he has jkept a significant secret for YEARS and my mom either told us about it, or he would. Thus my mother(?) drives 4 hours to my house to give the great news that my dad may be another man that she had an affair with during one of my dad's(?) annual hunting trips to Canada. AHHH the answer!!!! OHHHHHHthe pain. Now what do I do ?
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Rosie H
replied on April 24th, 2009
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best advice is to get as far away as possible, if you have the means of course. Someone once told me "your mother is that path to your distruction" they were right. I moved away from her when I was 16. Never went back. We are relocating to CO soon and I cannot wait...i need to be away from her even more....I feel your pain. Hang in there and try your hardest to get the truth out.
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ookies
replied on May 1st, 2009
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Perhaps another similar case history.
My dad, now 83, is diagnosed as a patient of Paranoid Schizo (by a doctor) and bipolar disorder (by another Doctor) around 8 years back. Both Doctors pointed (of couse verbally), that it developed at least 45 years back, then.

However, earlier, we always thought it as an attitudinal problem on his part. Our family is always the worst sufferer of his atitudinal problems and it is growing with his age. This is just a part of the story.

I have been sincerely observing his movements closely, since my childhood, but, I am not very sure about his childhood history as such. However, I am confident, that, her mother (i.e. my grand mother) was a saddist. In fact, one of my Aunt, had to commit suicide because of her cruelty. Even, after that, she continued with her cruel atitude with my mother too. In addition, other senior members of our (Joint) family, then, too involved in hostile activities against my mother.

I am not denying the possibility, that my mother may be at fault. But, possibly, this is not tbe case. As, Similar (like my grand mother), atitudinal ( or eccentric) problem was prevalent in my aunt (My fathers sister), who sued her son on some pretty issue. The above (few) case histories makes me confident that immediate seniors of my father had atitudinal problem and possibly his problems or disorders or eccentrity could be rooted in his case history.
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Sandy48
replied on June 27th, 2009
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Is my Mom Paranoid or have some type of Psychosis?
My mother, who has been paranoid for about 4 years now, seems to be in some type of psychosis. She went to live with my sister in Dec. 08 because we were tired of dealing with her living alone and what it involved. She would think that someone was in the room talking to her when no one was there. She got it in her mind that a man wanted to marry her, had been coming to see her, when no one had. She thought me and my sister were talking about her when we were not. She thought someone was pecking on her window at night and saying things, when that was not happening. At one apartment she was living, she thought her neighbor was throwing shoes and other things against her wall, and this lady was not doing it. She even went to the landlord on this lady and it upset this lady very much. We had to move her to another place to live. In fact we moved her 4 times in 4 years and now she is with my sister and is still not happy. She told me one day while I was at my sisters that she thought it was dangerous out there. Yesterday she told my brother-in-law that someone from her old church had called her and told her that some criminals were coming after her. We knew nothing of the kind had happened. Mom could not even tell my brother-in-law who had called. Does anyone have any idea what might be wrong with my mom. Is this just paranoia or is it some type of psychosis?
Thank you
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woops
replied on June 27th, 2009
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Well you can never rule out awful magic, demons perhaps or some crazy witch roaming around in your mother's mind. I suppose you can't rule out old age either, how old is she? Perhaps her brain is just getting old. Ill never be able to discern between the two now.
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Sandy48
replied on June 27th, 2009
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My mom just turned 78. But she smokes so much that we think that might have something to do with it. She smokes 4 cartons of cigerettes a month. She can't hear either. 50% of her hearing is gone and I think that sound going through her ears, makes her think it is something that it isn't. My 2 sisters and I went together and paid $3,000.00 for two hearing aids. She wore them about a month and put them in the closet and will not wear them at all now, refuses to wear them; refuses to stop smoking. She is on Risperdal for the paranoia but I can't see that it helps.
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