I know that you would like men to respond but as a woman, I think that you should know that self-esteem is a major component for happiness. If you feel good about yourself, you won't look to anyone else to affirm this for you.

I personally value self-confidence and earnestness in the people I meet. Regardless of man or woman.

I'm a woman too, but i agree with rooted; high self esteem is important. Humor, too.

well being very skinny is just as bad as being very fat, its not appealing to a lot of men. being in the middle is best, also average looks are best, women put too much make up on at times. as for breast size that really isnt important, i myself prefer small ones but i have dated women with large ones.
i bet your better looking than you realise, it sounds your self esteem is low. i also bet theres someone near you that likes you but you may have not noticed.
these are what i like
i have my own taste in women, and some say its odd, i like something wrong in a womans look, maybe a chipped tooth or bent nose, it sounds odd but but to me it means your more human and realistic than a perfect looking model type. boobs size not important, medium build , personality = fun but not in a drunken crazy way, nice and quiet but does adventurous stuff everynow and then. romantic and full of little suprises. no need to act sexy as sexiness comes from within.
dislikes or turn offs = too much make up, acting like one of the lads, women acting like men isnt a good thing, acting or looking like paris hilton in films or on tv is the biggest erection killer ever, be yourself always.
is this reply any help to you?

Thanks!!!!, I really apreciate your answers!!!! They may help me!!

Best wishes

Hey there, as a guy in my early/mid 20's who hasnt had very much luck with girls I would say to always be yourself. Don't EVER try to be someone your not just to try and impress some guy. Thats not the type of guy you want to be near. You want to be with somebody who likes you for who YOU are.

Yes obviously looks are important, and it is what immediately attracts a guy to a girl. But thats just the beginning and you will be amazed with the amount of people i at first didnt find attractive and then once I got to know them, I became so much more attracted to them, not just personality wise, but also looks wise. Dont get hung up on your looks. I'm sure there are plenty of people who find you attractive.

What I value in a girl: politeness, a girl who is lady-like, respectful, honest, trustworthy, loyal, interesting to talk to (i.e. has more interests outside of shoes, clothes, and america's next top model lol), funny (in their own way, not some clown who wants to be the centre of attention trying to impress everyone).

Never think about your breast size etc etc again. Any guy worth having wont care about stuff like that. Obviously if you feel you are too thin and you aren't happy about that then you can change that, BUT do it for YOU, and for nobody else.

By the sounds of thing you are a very nice girl so dont get hung up over shallow guys who dont look beyond people's looks. You'll find somebody great who appreciates you. Keep the chin up.

I just wish I could take my own advice

Thank you 04072511, your answer is very honest, I´ll try to follow your advice

In my tastes, i like a girl to be have a friendly attitude, the ability to laugh at gross things - and not get freaked out, and quite laid back; yet still take care of themselves.

hope this helps a lil!

yeah!! of course!! thanks!!

I can see that there are some men who don´t like just barbie girls

barbie girls are horrible, sometimes the more fake a woman looks the less female she looks. over plucked eyebrows, too much make up, the horrible orange fake tan and bleached blonde hair = turn off. be natural, its about time women went back to a more natural look.
currently i fancy a neighbour, she has a big nose, jet black hair, stretch marks from having a couple of kids, her breasts point down but i wouldnt say no to her, why, because she has a glow about her, women have it, some fellas may see yours some wont. personality is the most important thing.
nagging and being just like his mother are big turn offs!

No problem. If you ever feel like talking about it, just drop me a personal message.

me as a male i value the girl being her self.
i dont like girls who feel that they have to be the best. i just want them to be them self.
i personally look for a girl with a great personality preferrably one who can get along with everybody around them.
humor is also a good value.

Hi,

Being slim or thin at twenty is something you should appreciate. With time your figure will change and as you grow older you'll realize you had it all.
As far as big boobs, the natural ones are the best, big or small, just keep what you have and appreciate them.

Take care,

Boobs are nothing hahahaha the ones who are small want to be big and the ones who are big want to be small, just be happy with them.

Many mention self esteem but really I don't care for it much I think it's attractive when someone is a bit insecure, earnest and doesn't act like she can handle the whole world on her own. "Negative" qualities like shyness and nerdiness can be very attractive. Also, while many men like extraverted, spontaneous women I like the opposite. We don'
t all have the same taste...

Men are visually oriented though: wear clothing that makes you look good, nice boots and skirts are irresistible I find. There are many things you can do with your hair so try to get some ideas and have it done. Also it's cool if you're a bit into typical "man stuff" like sports/sci fi etc but not necessary.

i m full figured, i have a hour glass shape. but my monster ex b/f told me iwas a plan jane. my current b/f's jaws drop when i give him a lingerie show, he makes me feel beautiful. so beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
the man that you'll be with will be attracted to you.
and i would love to be petite/small framed. but im not, so big deal!
every couple arent supermodels!
are you shy?

you have to put yourself out there if you really want to meet someone.
register with myspace, i met guys from a popular hot line (but be careful).
myspace is good, b/c theyre able to see your picture.
ask someone do they know of a nice guy you can talk to,

As a male, i am attracted to these non physical traits in roughly this order.

Intelligence
Kindness
Smile
passion
easy going
happy and fun loving
ambitious

Physiologically, i am attracted to some girls more than others. However i think, inner qualities are more significant in relationships.

I value honesty and integrity. There is nothing greater than truth.