I am doing research on what makes a good husband, so I would appreciate women telling me what attributes / behaviors you would want to see in a man before you would consider classifying him a good husband?
Every women wants something different. Most want different things at the same time. Be a good man and you'll find that you're a good husband for any woman that falls in love with you, even before you marry.
I agree with WOLF, every woman wants something different in a man. For myself on the other hand, I like to know that I am the only woman in his eyes. I love it when after 3 years of being with my man, he will come home with flowers for no reason and tell me "Happy just because I love you day." When he wakes me up in the morning with only a kiss from his lips and tells me (when I know I look terrible) that I am the sexiest woman on earth. When he tells me that his whole reason for his existance is to care for me and my children. When I come first in his eyes, ever before himself. When he opens doors for me. When a man treats his woman like a queen... that is a wonderful husband to me and I feel like I am the luckiest girl ever.