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Q: What is he thinking?
asked by: maymay81 on September 11th, 2009
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My boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 years already. We seldom quarrel and have apply flats already.

He seem like change to a another person ever seen his colleagues ask him to go sing karaoke. He seem to lose interest in me kept praising how caring his colleagues are. I question him iz he has fall in love with one of his colleague. But he denied. Then one day, i catch him text a message to his colleague. He got no choice but to admit to me that he really fall in love with his colleague.

I was disapointed and beri sad. The next day he look for me and ask me can i give him another chance. He say he cant lose me and he can give up that girl as he not yet started any relationship with her. I love him so i gave him another chance.

But i was still beri insecure as i afraid he go back to work he will like his colleague again since he going to see her everyday. So i have been questioning him a few times he really want to choose me. He say yes.

However, after 1 week. He tell me he can only give me 80% of love. He didnt love me as much as last time liao. He ask me can accept anot. so, i tell him what if next time he tell me become 60%. How am i going to accept it. He told me he scare i dont accept him that why he lie to me is 100% love when he come back that time to beg forgiveness.

Then he tell me im correct i shouldnt take risk in him. He ask me to find another man. He say he wouldnt change his mind with me again and will withdraw the flat. He say i can still look for him if i need help.

I was hurt again. What is he thinking? Does he love me?
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W0LF
replied on September 11th, 2009
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No, people who love you don't quantify it in percentages. When you're in love there is only before love and after love. It is an absolute. He may or may not be getting involved with his coworker but if he's encouraging you to find someone else he's not interested in a relationship with you any longer.
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