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what he fails to realize is i'm a people person

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May 19th, 2011
this question really is not about me but rather my so called boyfriend. i bam 38 yo and for the 1st time in my life i have my own place. my socalled bf is very jealous hye questions me as to y people come to me and talk to me most r men but what he fails to realize is i'm a people person even tho some may have a history with me mpost do not and he's always asking y they r here i would b sitting on the front porch{not behind closed doors} i can't answer for them and y should i even have 2 ans his question it's the same thing everyt single day i tell him if he wants to b with me then he needs to seek professional hlp. he gets angry and cusses me out calling me a "mf" what should i bdo about this situation. he even goes around yelling in public that i do certain things when i don't what would make a person lie about some1 they claim to love? he is going to cause me to lose my apt and then i will be very upset. he even comes 2 my job and wants 2 know who is talking 2 me. i work @ a conv st


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replied May 22nd, 2011
Troubled and Abusive Relationships Answer A23278
Hello and welcome to e health forum.

From the description provided it seems that you and your boyfriend need to sit together and talk about your relationship. You need to let him know about your feelings in exact clear words, and also mention that how his actions cause discomfort and depression.

In case, he does not respond well, then the next step would be couple counselling with a good counselor or psychiatrist.

If that does not work out, and he does not mend his ways, and is still abusive, then you might consider alternative options, as it is difficult to change a person, who does not want to change. The need for change has to come from within.

I hope this helps.


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