i was the same way! me and my boyfriend thought something was wrong with me becuz i never had one, and sex does feel good. i kept telling myself my body wasn't mature enough yet.

An orgasm is a build up of tension, you know when he thrusts really deep and it feels amazing, the thrust where you let out a loud moan. its like that but constant pleasure for 10-15 seconds. Called a release of pressure.

how can you have one? VIBRATOR! was my trick. while he is in me, he is up on his hands while i am laying down, and i hold the vibrator right over the clit (or whatever feels good to you) and while he is going in and out and with the vibration, and orgasm is alot more possible than just regular sex.

and you will feel the build up of tension and pleasure, you will start squirming around more, and my boyfriend tells me i get more wet than normal. My first time i was too scared to orgasm, so i pulled back, but dont be scared, its fun!

i hope that helps!

yeah tht helps thanks alot like wat i understand from what u said sounds like ive had one b4. cuz one time me n him were messin around and i was straddling him both us had no pants on and i was kinda grindin on him cuz he loves pressure there n it felt amazing cuz it was also pressure on my clit and i got this rush of pleasure but i didnt know tht was it but thxx for tellin me thtd helps alot

next time your on top... have him rub your clit for you.. best on top sex ive ever had in my life! lol

ooooo sounds fun lol ok will do thxx

i don't really personally know what an orgasim is either

i've probably had them, i just don't know how to identify them lol

Wow! Thank you! =) This really helped! I always thought I had experience an orgasm but now I know I did. Sometimes it’s a little embarrassing to ask a friend.

If you don't know how it feels, you haven't had one. Because when you have one....you just know.

It's sort of like the best sneeze you'll ever have, but...down there.

It's like a new part of you has been born...You are perfection in a woman...You feel that you are everything that any man could ever want....And you know it!!!....You can be thinking about it and it brings a smile to your face and it makes your eyes twinkle...It makes shame a word that you never knew....It is just plain heaven....

Caroline

During sex/fooling around tension builds up in your genitals and your body while your heart rate and breathing increase tremendously.

When orgasm happens it is as if all that tension explodes at once in your genitals. They contract and you can feel waves of heat and pure pleasure radiating from that explosion through your body. You may loose control of your legs and pelvis and it can move involuntary. Your head may also move back involuntary to expose more of your neck.

Believe me that you will know if you had an orgasm!!

Your clitoris is the center point of getting to orgasm, especially at your age. Rub Rub Rub Rub and enjoy!

before i plan on having sex i want to be with a guy for a while but not marriage. but how do i give off the signals that i want to have sex without sounds to foward or desperet?

I always thought that I couldnt have an orgasm because I just wasnt into sex that much or that I did have orgasms but they werent like what everyone described them to be, but when I met my boyfriend and we had sex for the first time, he showed me what an orgasm really is. It is definitely hard to describe, but truest me you will know when you have one.