what does it mean if my adams apple inflames agter oral sex?

Uhm hi....I had unprotected sex on thursday and I had no problems then. But on friday I started to get itchy on my private part and I didn't put too much attention too it. Also, later on I found a buldge on my neck which seemed to be my adams apple and it wus pretty out. I started to get worried because I had the buldge on my neck which isn't noticeable and my vaginal itch was intensing. I still have these problems but I don't know what's the cause for them. Oh and also when I was woman scaping.... I felt something that seemed like it wus a pimple but when I gave it a look it wasn'tthere but I knew I felt something. And last but not least, the itchyness has gone throughout other areas to my body. So if there's anyone that can help me with this I'd really apreciate it because I'm so paranoid that I'm thinking I have aids or hiv or something. PLEASE HELP!!