haha what do we look at...we look into the mirror...on the back of the bed yeaaaa haha

Hahah big surprise

haha
other than that I think typically most people look at their partner...right? i mean..i would be completely insulted if the guy was starring at a wall or something lol

I'm not into the whole eye contact thing, I have other things running through my head, kissing to much is gross I would say a little of everything in moderation, do what feel snaturally I hate when shyte is forced.

mikolas...really??? you don't want us girls to post in your forum? dang. that's not nice. we like you posting in our forums. part of the reason to have it is to get the opposite's sex's views.

jaydensmommy i agree with what you said about the whole eye contact thingy...

greenr, you still tickle me...you're too funny.

my only other opinion on this is that i've never been a one night stand to anyone. not only that, but honestly, i think it's sad to think of a girl going to bed with a boy who is so "NOT" into her that he's wondering where to look.

the thought of that sorta makes me want to cry...but i've been like that today...must be my hormones raging.
jasmine

but its ok for a guy to have a one nighter jaz? i'm no slu and i'm not a saint ... but honestly if its a one nighter the whole staring into your eyes thing sorta freaks you out ... I agree with who ever wrote if its a random look at boobs ... if its a gf look at face ... well boobs also ... well everywhere ... not out the window though.

hahahahaha...worriedauzzi...that's funny.

ok, as far as one-nighters go...i know men and women are "wired" differently, so i can understand why a man would want a one-nighter. it's like when a man has sex, he just has sex and when a woman does, she gives her LOVE...so one-nighters might work out ok for most men, but probably not so many women (heck i'm sure some women like one-nighter's too otherwise no one would do it right).

a g/f of mine had a one nighter once when we were real young. she didn't "intend" for it to be a one-nighter though. she loved this guy so when they did it, she was making love to him and he was getting off on her.

my advice is that if you're a guy and you're going to have a one-nighter with a girl, just make sure that both of you agree to begin with that it's just a one-nighter...call it a sexual fling or something if you have to, but get the girls understanding up front just so you don't have a very sweet (but not so bright) girl like my friend Penny walking around loving you when you just used her.

i'm not really faulting the guy in this case, because it takes 2 to have sex, but just keep in mind that some girls are more gullible than others.

jasmine <~~is not gullible, but still thinks there is something (sickly) funny about this subject.

Yeah there are a lot of girls like that. I think we all know a Penny.

so here i come extra late but i just got wind of thie web site and thought i would check it out. Just gatta toss my 2 cents in this whole thing. Personaly i think sex is sex, this should freaky, sloppy, and wild. Rather it's one night or pepl n a relationship. Humans have sex for the pleasure, so do wat feels good. ya know.