Ok so going along with my trend of topics, this is going to be a long post. Lol
My question to you guys in a nutshell is “does a guy need to have a six pack to be attractive?” I have never had any experience with girls relationship wise. I talk to girls and I am friendly and joke around with them, but I have never been in a relationship. With that said I never found out what girls consider to be an attractive man (excluding the stereotypical “hot” guys you see on TV). NOTE: for this question I am excluding attractiveness based off personality, this is just only on looks. Don’t get me wrong I am not shallow, nor do I disregard personality, but I at least want a girl to find me attractive in a relationship. Personality is extremely important in a relationship, but not so much for my question. I just don’t know if a girl could find me “hot”. I don’t have a six pack, but I have been told I am toned and lean (my mom told me this and she is a personal trainer, so I guess that counts for something. Lol). I have what I can be considered a two pack and when I tighten my abs their hard (which kinda bothers me because I think you can’t tell that they are hard based off looks. I feel like girls would think I am lying just because they can’t see that they are hard because I don’t have a six pack). I just don’t feel that I am that attractive. I know everyone has their types, but I don’t know where I fit. Like, if I was compared to a guy who was ripped, would I be considered less attractive or attractive, but just a different body type? I don’t have much confidence and for most of my life the schools I have been in are small schools. I have never been told that I am attractive (by girls my age), but at the same time I have never met any girls outside my school.
Another reason I ask this question, is because the type of girls I personally like are girls that are voluptuous and curvy. Before I go any further I just wanted to make clear that this is my own personal preference. There are plenty of girls without this body type who are beautiful and if you don’t have that body type I am not saying you are ugly. This is the type of girl that I would like to be in a relationship with (also I am not throwing away personality). Ok now with that said, I feel like if I every dated a girl of this type I would be a down-grade for her in the looks department. Look, I am only 16 and I have not seen the word, but I don’t know if this body type is common. Based off of what I have seen it seems like it is not (is it common?) and it also seems like girls like that go for ripped guys. So what I am trying to say is that “the type of girl that I like, would not like me”. I would like to think that girls could find me attractive and I could give a ripped guy a run for his money in the looks department, but I just don’t know. So again, my question to you guys is “can a guy like me be considered hot even though he doesn’t have a 6 pack and is not big and ripped, excluding personality?” Thanks again for reading another one of my long posts (I even had to cut some stuff out, lol). Also thanks for putting up with my spelling, grammar, and warped way of thinking. lol
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