Recently i have found it difficult to get wet with my boyfriend and we cant have sex although i am really attracted to him, the last two times it happend we both had been drinkin a lot that night and i get wet really easily every other time! What could the problem be? Is it the alchol?? Please help!! Its really annoying!
Lubrication is a physical response to a psychological state. Once a person is sexually aroused, then lubrication usually occurs, getting the physical apparatus ready for the physical act of sexual intercourse.
Alcohol inhibits a lot of things psychological. So, if you had consumed a lot of alcohol, it is possible that is the reason. Expecially if you have no problems when you have not been consuming alcohol.
You might want to back off on the amount you are drinking, and see what happens.
It could be related to your alcohol consumption or maybe other factors, including your general state of health or fitness. Try easing back on the drink (it could be your equivalent of "brewer's droop") and using a lubricant (like KY jelly) when you don't get moist will usually help.