I have had orgasms before but I would like to have them more often,what should I do does anyone have any masturbation techniques and when im with my bf what shall I get him to because he dosent really know how to finger me and sometimes it hurts.
It is your responsibility to show and tell your boyfriend what you like. Show him by masturbating for him, or take his hand and guide him. Give him verbal encouragement while he is doing it so that he continues with what pleases you and stop doing what does not please you.
You are the only one that knows where and how you like to be touched. And you are unique. None of his past or future girlfriends will like it exactly the way you do.
So if he is causing you discomfort and does not give you pleasure, it is your own fault. Tell him what to do.
I totally agree with kristigraham! You know your body more then anyone else and if you don't just experience with yourself. Thats the best way to find out what you like or dislike or where you "Spots" are! You can also stimulate your clit while you and your boyfriend are having sex, if you are having sex. That works good and there are all kinds of sex toys you can use by yourself of both yall can use together! Hope this helps! Good luck!
Masturbation techniques? Well I think most girls like to masturbate with a toy. You can use a dildo, a vibrator, a vibrating toothbrush, vegetables, corn, etc. You can even use multiple toys if they'll fit. I'd often give my ex girlfriend my old toothbrushes and they're pretty thin so I'd put two in at once. I've heard that girls more often prefer using their imagination while guys more often prefer using porn, but you can always give porn a shot and see if you can find stuff you like. Also you can try having "cyber sex" which is masturbating on a webcam with an online partner. Don't be afraid to masturbate as much as you like. It's perfectly healthy, and I hear girls don't even have to recharge like guys do so they can have lots of orgasms in a row.