Hun I understand where you are coming from...too much wetness is not a good thing. It desensitizes the act. I have no way of helping you on solving the problem other than maybe talking to your doctor. Could you actually be having female ejaculation that is causing the wetness or are you just really wet? I would talk to your doctor about it if it is affecting your sex life. Best of luck to you.

He doesn't go down on you or anything before you have sex, does he? That could make you more wet.

Too much foreplay? That too might make you a little too wet.

I have a feeling that it could be female ejaculate. I'm not sure how to fix that, but I would just try to work the wiping away of the fluid into the sex routine.

Maybe even try changing to a position that will create a little more friction.