I am experiencing a very embarassing situation where I feel wet in the seat of my pants constantly. It is not incontinence, more like a hot flash between my legs. All of my pants will have a wet spot that looks exactly like I wet myself and didn't make it to the bathroom. This is very noticable and I can see it clearly when I take my pants off. There is no odor or anything but definitely wet. I notice it happens more when I either sit for long periods of time and on leather. What can I do about this? Is this a symptom of menopause or something else? I feel like I am always going to have something to be embarassed about. I went through a period where I would hemorrhage all the time and I would be afraid to stand up from my chair for fear of an embarassing sight. Now here I am again afraid to stand up for fear it will look like I peed on myself. I am turning 49 next month and I have not had a period since October of 2008 and I am experiencing all the other 500 symptoms. Please help!