ok so anyway im confused about my sexuality i have been having this weird feeling in my penis when i see someone draw a penis or like squirt glue out of a glue bottle in my penis its kinda a good feeling and i can feel my tesies move but i never get an erection am i gay becuase i get erections when i see vaginas online but never from penises online and like when i touch this girl in my classes leg i get like butter flys in my stomuch so does that mean im straight? im so confused im 13 and dont really know whats going on please help...oh and when my guy friends like touch me like bump into me i get all weird like i feel all my blood rush around my face and i get the weird feeling in my penis but i do watch alot of porn is this screwing me up?
i think you just need to relax. i think it's pretty natural for someone your age to get turned on by pretty much anything (or nothing). i think you're too young to be looking at porn. i know you're probably rolling your eyes at me for saying that, but you are not mature enough to understand what your body is telling you in those situations, so porn does you zero good.
allow yourself to grow up a little. don't worry about sexual indentity issues. just be yourself. you're completely normal. i'm a female, but when i was your age, and i realized i was "popping out here and there" i had all kinds of feelings i didn't understand. just give yourself some time.
by the way, i'm 26 and i can tell you that a lot of what you see on porn is NOT NATURAL, and it's not a good guide to understand what adults do when they make love. you're putting too much pressure on yourself...and it's not necessary.
I agree with Jazzy you are very young so you do need to give yourself some time to grow up first and porn is not a good guide to find out your sexuality. The feeling in your penis I dont completely understand I need more info to try to help you. Is it a pleasurable or painful sensation and how long does it last?
well it kinda feels good but its also uncomefortable but i dont get it when im home alone only like when im at school and some one draws a penis but i think its just because im worrying so much about it. because i dont always get it it last like as long as i think about it pretty much but i dont get any feeling when i get erections from girls it just starts to pulse and go up
Well I dont think your gay, I just think the impulses you get is just a feeling of an erection nothing else. The pain is probably you trying to not make yourself aroused to a "gay" image so that its bothering you more mentally than anything. You are young so many things some bigger than others may cand can arouse you its normal at your age, but I really dont think you have anything too worry about.
Me too, dude, I'm 22 male never had any sexual identity problems at all, I know I am straight 100% but the thing is man I feel the exact same thing so I just started to worry just recently because a gay dude was trying to turn me gay and I have major OCD and I started to worry like a crud load does this mean I'm gay does that mean I'm gay does this that etc..., okay so I am going to tell you from what I have learn and been through. 1. We all have eyes, we can tell if the same and opposite sex is good looking pretty handsome and so on does not mean you are desiring that body in a sexual or romantic manner, me I know I am straight but I can tell when a dude is handsome, just because you are straight does not mean you are blind. 2. Since you are a dude, being gay means you want to be with another dude sexually, yes I know homosexuality is not just about sex but that's it, being sexual attracted to some somebody means you want to have sexual relations that person, if you don't want to have any sexual contact logically you don't want to have a romantic relationship with that person either, okay so what you are feeling on your penis man I feel the exact same thing when I see a dude I freak the hell out, when I was a kid I always ignored it because it felt like I wanted for something to happen down there but it didn't so I ignored because if you ever paid attention man force yourself to have that feeling when you see a dude or a penis or whatever and then try to get yourself turned by a hot chick, one thing you will notice is that you actually get a boner from the girl because that's what you really desire, second the other feeling you have if you pay close enough attention is actually you getting turned off, look at yourself down there when that happens you will see that you actually get smaller. That's the uncomfortable feeling you have man, being gay means you Desire and you are Sexual attracted to the same sex. You can tell who is attractive, good looking, handsome, cool, badass, stylish, classy, swag..... It's all the same thing but the thing is what actually gives you a boner. Sorry for my language I hope it helps but I know I am straight but I have the same feeling too but I just ignore and enjoy my life being straight because I know I don't desire to be with the same sex....