i think you just need to relax. i think it's pretty natural for someone your age to get turned on by pretty much anything (or nothing). i think you're too young to be looking at porn. i know you're probably rolling your eyes at me for saying that, but you are not mature enough to understand what your body is telling you in those situations, so porn does you zero good.

allow yourself to grow up a little. don't worry about sexual indentity issues. just be yourself. you're completely normal. i'm a female, but when i was your age, and i realized i was "popping out here and there" i had all kinds of feelings i didn't understand. just give yourself some time.

by the way, i'm 26 and i can tell you that a lot of what you see on porn is NOT NATURAL, and it's not a good guide to understand what adults do when they make love. you're putting too much pressure on yourself...and it's not necessary.

good luck,
jasmine

but does any one know why i get this feeling in my penis? is that what being turned on is because i never get that from girls or boobs or anything

I agree with Jazzy you are very young so you do need to give yourself some time to grow up first and porn is not a good guide to find out your sexuality. The feeling in your penis I dont completely understand I need more info to try to help you. Is it a pleasurable or painful sensation and how long does it last?

well it kinda feels good but its also uncomefortable but i dont get it when im home alone only like when im at school and some one draws a penis but i think its just because im worrying so much about it. because i dont always get it it last like as long as i think about it pretty much but i dont get any feeling when i get erections from girls it just starts to pulse and go up

i forgot to mention that i love my Gf like i always wanna hug her and its gives me butter flys and she gives me erections when i touch her but the gay feeling in my penis is killing me

Well I dont think your gay, I just think the impulses you get is just a feeling of an erection nothing else. The pain is probably you trying to not make yourself aroused to a "gay" image so that its bothering you more mentally than anything. You are young so many things some bigger than others may cand can arouse you its normal at your age, but I really dont think you have anything too worry about.