Weight loss and joint pain

I am at a loss as to what to do next. I know my body, and after 38 years I am quite certain I have HIV. I snorted some drugs almost 7 months ago and also smoked Meth one night when I had too much to drink and I went out for my friends birthday. Ever since that night my life has turned upside down. I lost 20 pounds, had night sweats, major abdominal pains, joint pain, I was also diagnosed with shingles at one point. I have currently tested negative up to the 6 month mark for HIV but I believe I was co infected with Hep C at the same time and it has affected my results. The pain in my abdomin is constant now and is located on the upper right near my liver. My urine is darker and my body is continually sore like I am 80 years old. I also am getting this really bad pain in my neck shoulder area ( feels like in my collarbone). Prior to this I was a completely active healthy person. I tested negative for Hep C at 6 months but I think the accute Hep C infection has delayed my results. I am in constant pain and my doctor basically ignores me as he says my tests were negative. I KNOW I am infected . I need advise and help badly, I am afraid I may have infected my wife and I can't live with that. I have lost considerable weight in my face and all my joints, body hurt. What options do I have, where can I turn to,